Never Again Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 I disagree. If you are in love with someone, you would want to build a future with that person. What is the point of loving someone and not see that person in your future. That's contradictory. That's not real love. True love involves commitment for now and the future. If you are not ready to confirm whether or not you are compatible long term, then you are not really in love yet. Yeah some girl can have a huge crush on a bad boy, and know deep down inside that they are not compatible. Hence that is not true love. It's not contradictory. "True love" and "in love" are very different things to a lot of people. Falling "in love" for a lot of people is the progression of that initial "spark", that sexual chemistry that draws people together and explodes...which doesn't last. I mean, it doesn't go away entirely if you maintain it, but the intensity of it levels off. It's good that it does too...that hormonal high would be too distracting to have forever. Feeling that pull and keeping it, to want to build "forever" with someone, is very different. Some people are quicker at identifying it than others (I think a level head, maturity, and an ability to see the reality beyond the rose colored glasses we all wear during the "honeymoon period" helps), but WANTING to build a future with them because it feels nice...and actually SEEING a future with then because it's possible and you're compatible enough...are very different.
Leigh 87 Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Freudian slip? Like you will say..."I think he might be just after sex". I'll be wary if I were you Just saying Wtf? You don't know me or my bf. He isn't the type to use girls for sex. It's odd that you made that assumption about a guy you don't know. The two guys before him used me for sex. I know well of the signs now. 1
Tayken Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Wtf? You don't know me or my bf. He isn't the type to use girls for sex. It's odd that you made that assumption about a guy you don't know. The two guys before him used me for sex. I know well of the signs now. Where is the fire you say?
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