lilin Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I have been dating a friend that i havent met for years. We went out few times. During one of the dates, out of curiousity, i asked him if he has a crush on me and he said yes, a little more than crush. But he told me it's better to be friends instead of lovers as i m leaving the place soon. it gonna be a long distance relationship and he doesnt want that. So I was thinking may be i can change his thought by going back home more often (it's like 5 hrs drive from my place to his place). But it isnt like what i was thinking. I went back to see him after a week. He kept telling me that he's busy or his network is bad didnt gt my text. and ever since, he didnt reply me as often as what he did before. I suspected if he ignore me on purpose. I confronted him and he sent me a picture of the app which show that he replied me but the text wasnt sent. and today i asked him if he's free. I will be going back two weeks later. what he told me is he is not sure. I am confused, I dont know if he still likes me? is he really tat busy? is his internet connection that bad?
PegNosePete Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 is he really tat busy? is his internet connection that bad? Do you really expect random strangers on the internet to know this? Seems like he is not all that keen on you, though. He has told you that he doesn't want to date you (for whatever reason). You need to accept that answer.
TaraMaiden Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Do you really expect random strangers on the internet to know this? I happen to know this guy is really part of The Secret Service and is engaged in some pretty intense spywork for the Gubmint at the moment. It's all pretty hush - hush but if he wants her to think his internet connection is dodgy, he has the technology to make her believe whatever he wants..... Seems like he is not all that keen on you, though. He has told you that he doesn't want to date you (for whatever reason). You need to accept that answer. Yeah... Probably on second thoughts, this....
ExpatInItaly Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 No, I don't think he likes you any more. His responses to you are lukewarm at best, and he actually told you he doesn't want to date. Listen to him, and move on.
Noproblem Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 He thinks with his mind not with his heart And he doesn't want to fight to get a girl he likes So just leave him already!
deathandtaxes Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I think it's the distance. You said you've only been out a few times. He doesn't have enough invested to make the distance worthwhile.
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