crackerjax9 Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Hi There, It's been 6 days NC, 12 days since the break up. It's been a touch couple of almost two weeks. My heart hurts like hell and all I want is him. He's going awy to Colorafo tomorrow for 5 days and I know there will be a couple of single girls there so I am worried he may hook up with one of them. Which is probably why I just woke up from a nightmare about him telling me he's been having sex with a girl using a condom. Ugh, I know it's just a dream but I feel like my heart just broke even more I shouldn't text him or anything saying to have a safe flight or to be safe in Colorado right (hearing tons of avalanches). Ps he broke up with me thru a text last week.
MixedMinh Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I know this seems quite difficult, but try not to dwell on things. I have dreams about ex's often and that is not uncommon at all. It does hinder feelings and bring emotions back into play. Just try to be aware and honest with yourself. You are stronger than you think you are. Our biggest enemies are ourselves. We can all do better, we just have to allow ourselves that opportunity to do so by not allowing the past to hold us back! Think about now. Don't think about yesterday, or the days before. You define your own happiness!
StringsAttached Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I don't think i'd be able to look my ex in the eye if she broke up with me via text. That's a cowardly move, even if it is to save pain between the two of you. I wouldn't text him, let him come to you.
Author crackerjax9 Posted February 21, 2014 Author Posted February 21, 2014 Thanks guys, just having such a hard time. My heart hurts so bad and I feel myself falling into a depression
Author crackerjax9 Posted February 22, 2014 Author Posted February 22, 2014 So I contacted him. I want my box of toys back. Random yes, expensive yes and at this point I hate him and want them back. He'll get no use out of them and I'll be damned if he used them with a new girl. I can use them and I sure as hell will with my next bf. Screw him. He said I can get them tonight or next week. Boom.
lakerman34 Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 I don't want to seem harsh, but he's going to have sex with another girl eventually. I'm sorry. If it makes you feel better, my ex was cheating on me with one of my friends. THAT was a tough pill to swallow. What I've noticed was that every girl is an improvement over the last for me. It's just the way things work. Don't "try" and forget about him, but don't snoop. What you don't know won't hurt you. If he feels that he NEEDS to let you know about his sexual encounters, he's a douche and was never worth your time anyway. The "better man" for you is coming. Just be patient and he'll come.
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