OzHeartache Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Today is my birthday If I get a text I will feel sad and terrible and just wish she was still part of my world and knowing I can't reply (NC) If I don't get one I'll be upset that only 2 weeks ago I was so close to that person and now ...... Nothing Sucks @ss
somecamel Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 For your own sanity it's best if she doesn't text you. Is there anyway you can block her number? If you do this you wont know either way if she has text or not which might make it easier? 2
Author OzHeartache Posted February 21, 2014 Author Posted February 21, 2014 It's just about 9pm here in Sydney..... Pretty sure I'm not going to get one, prob for the best but hurts to know we were so close less than 2 weeks ago and now I'm not even in her thoughts
notthathard Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 You're not having the best run man. You were together for 6 weeks and she lost the spark? shouldn't you still be in the honeymoon period during that time. You clearly have no problems attracting women, it's just the keeping part. Maybe work on yourself in that area..
David87 Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Happy Birthday OzHeartache. Try not to think about your ex at all. 1
WYSWYG Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 It's never easy. The pain we all feel/felt takes time to go away but it will. Be strong and stay NC for your own good. Otherwise, you will just prolong the misery. We're all there w/ you, mate! Understand that expectations can lead to disappointments. Don't dig a hole for yourself... 1
flightplan Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Happy birthday. I know it may sound bad, but the best birthday present she could give you is silence. But rest assured, she knows its your day and she hasn't forgotten you. I got one from my ex on my birthday and it would've been better if she hadn't. 1
picnicinthepark Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Happy birthday! You're going to have a great year and a fantastic life! Hang in there! 1
Nicki73562 Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 It will get easier but I think NC and blocking his number would help. I went through this and kept checking my phone all the time and getting upset when he wouldn't txt then answer his txts. We finally stopped contact for years and I have been better because of it. Now I am on to my second breakup after 3 years and on day 2. Good luck I know it hurts. 1
Author OzHeartache Posted February 21, 2014 Author Posted February 21, 2014 No the first one was 6weeks, this last one was 4 months, I know it doesn't seem that long but I fell quite hard for this one.......the keeping part is what I want to happen..... Just not sure what I'm doing wrong but anyways..... Just gotta keep going I guess You're not having the best run man. You were together for 6 weeks and she lost the spark? shouldn't you still be in the honeymoon period during that time. You clearly have no problems attracting women, it's just the keeping part. Maybe work on yourself in that area..
Author OzHeartache Posted February 21, 2014 Author Posted February 21, 2014 Understand that expectations can lead to disappointments. Don't dig a hole for yourself... I know, that's half my problem I think, I really want it to work and I get so deflated when it doesn't, I know that's something I need to work on, value my self more and not be so shattered if they don't want to be with me....think more along the lines of "their loss" easier than it sounds though
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