kaylan Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) So a woman 12 years my senior hits me up on OLD. Should I assume she just wants a frisky fling? Do these women want an actual friendship or to be courted at all? Or should I see this as a young buck being put to good work? lol Ive never dated anyone older than me, but wanna give it a try while Im still in my 20s. PS - Conversely, an 18 year old tried getting at me today, and I felt mega awkward about that haha. All I could think was "d'aww thats cute" lol. Too young =P Edited February 21, 2014 by kaylan 1
ja123 Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I'd say that the older woman only wants you for sex. If you're okay with that, go for it!
SYLLPalmer Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 You are ideally suited to each other sexually because your sex drives are aligned. However, as horned up as I am at 42 I still wouldn't approach a guy younger than me because I assume most men feel that the younger the girl the more beautiful (ending at 17 years of age). I wouldn't want to be with anyone that "settled" for me. Likewise I get hits and coercion from men starting at 19 and most often 28 through 37. Of these I would consider 37 year olds because after that it starts to feel perverted to me. Further I want long term monogamy and the spread just can't be that wide because I think of us in 10 years and I am like: Ahhhh I feel like a charity case her. So I would imagine she is either drunk or high or she just wants to have a little hanky panky. Who knows she may even be married. *Shrug*
RedRobin Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 Don't know Kaylan. If it is ok for a guy to go for women 12 years younger (for sex, relationships, and everything in between) then why can't women? Why don't you just find out yourself and not make assumptions? I've had more than a few younger guys try to date me. A couple were really sincere and I turned them away because I made assumptions like that. My mistake.
Author kaylan Posted February 21, 2014 Author Posted February 21, 2014 Yeah Im assuming its just for a fling. Gotta admit Im a tad nervous. Shes got all that life experience =P. Im wondering if there will be any beating around the bush if she just wants something casual. Lets see what happens.
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