iworthmore Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 its been a month since my last activity on this website. basically was so busy with work. i have to mention that the last 4 months were so intensive in every life aspect. i was emotionally stormed, so busy at work, working out 7 days a week. been in the usa for a conference. can't believe i made it. getting better everyday. getting fit, won a prize in science and forgetting the ex. . i was skeptical about improving myself in order to heal faster. but its so true. got back my self confidence and realized how talented i am. strict no contact, never mentioned the RS to anyone. found my strength points and developed them. and in the end the ex trying to get my attention. was in the anger stage. was so angry and wanted revenge so bad. now im over it. im not numb. im happy and i dont care anymore. got better and more important things to set in my life priorities. i believe some of you had my experience. been betrayed or used. and if you are full of rage just calm and focus on u. moving on and being happy is the best revenge ever. im not feeling happy cuz the ex contacted. i'v made it clear to her that its over and i rejected her. she's past now. not even a memory. my happiness is from the progress i'v made not from any kind of revenge. just wanted to share my experience to those who hold rage to their ex's. they not worth every single moment. our life should be only abt us. invest every second on u. i'v wasted alot of time on the ex which i cud use for something more useful. just a post to share my happy moments. and try to help with my experience. ppl here supported me during my hard time. i must support them 2. the more we worth the less they do IWM 1
lakerman34 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 That sounds great. Good for you!! When we breakup and are going through emotional turmoil, the best thing we can do is become the best we can possibly be. People who are "out looking for the perfect love" are doing it wrong. Why not BECOME the perfect love so that when you find Her, she can't resist? The sweetest revenge is being successful. I try and use EVERY mishap, EVERY breakup as a way to reinvent myself. Eventually, I'm going to become SUCH an impressive person that I'll look at all the girls in my past and laugh. "Why did I even give them the time? They weren't good enough....but hey, boning them was fun, I guess. HAHA I'll always have THOSE memories when I go to bed at night, surrounded by thoughts of my success and about the girl in the apartment across the way who was hitting on me HARD. Ah, life is beautiful."
mammasita Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Breakups always suck, no denying that......but the more you/we do to move past it, the better you/we emerge. Good for you
brokeNlost Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 moving on and being happy is the best revenge ever. This speaks to me. Thank you and congrats
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