jack_jeckel Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 OK, there is this girl I used to work with she always had a thing for me she would always whistle at me and blush when I am near by and stuff like that. She is a pretty girl and I thought about hooking up with her at the time but she was talking to one of my friends and he was in love with her. Well she eventually quit and my friend and her stopped talking. Well last semester I had her in one of my classes, she would always sit by me, I decided I was going to give her my number so I did. Know a couple of weeks ago she calls me up, I think she was a little Intoxicated, She starts telling me how me and her should start doing stuff together, we talked for a long time until she finally said she should hang up before she started saying some stuff she didn't want to say. I called her up the next day but she said she couldn't talk. The day after that she called me and she explained and we talked for a while. I then tried to call her to set up a date for that night but she said she couldn't because she had made plans with her parents. Now I tried calling to set up another date with her a few days later but nobody answered and I didn't receive a call back I then tried last Thursday, again no answer so I left a message on her voice mail saying I needed to talk to her so call me back, but I received no call back. Well that Saturday after i see her driving and she is all waving at me so I wave back The question is why is she not returning my call and should I keep trying or move on I do like this girl alot but she is confusing
haywood Posted January 20, 2005 Posted January 20, 2005 yeah confusing. since there's not much of a history with you two, i suggest that you wait it out a bit. since she's not answering or returning your calls don't call. yeah, maybe she likes games but depends how much you can take. be nonchalaunt about it. call her again. if she doesn't pick up, take it as a sign. if she does, then ask her out. if she says she's busy, then forget about her. there's not too much involved. so no need to think about it too much. give it a try and if things don't work out then move on. it's her loss. good luck
mt_joy Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I would say that maybe she's just playing games with you. She's trying to be hard to get. Joy MT Student
Huntr777 Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Women are funny that way, it's kind of like the ideal that she has is that she wants you, but then when she has you she gets nervous, doens't know what to do, etc. Then, you being a guy (and being nervous yourself), seeing that you're getting mixed signals, you move away. Then she wants you again, gives you signals, etc, so it pulls you in again, and the cycle continues. Honestly I'm not sure what I would do, apart from being alone with her and saying to her what you've said to us... Good luck, and remember, if by chance this doens't work there's always somebody else around the corner. Hunter
Author jack_jeckel Posted January 22, 2005 Author Posted January 22, 2005 Thanks for the advice I ended up trying to call her again, this time she called back and I asked her if she had plans for saturday night. She said, "no" so I set up a friendly date. I will call her again saturday to see if she is still willing to go on the date. I guess I will see if she is playing games on saturday
SuperFantastico Posted January 22, 2005 Posted January 22, 2005 Perhaps she is trying to get back at you for making her wait so long. Maybe she is just trying to play the game. Drive you crazy till you ask her out. Who knows. I saw let her call you. If she dosnt, not really your loss anyways. Dont let her suck you into her game. then you are as good as 'friend'
BOZZ_6 Posted January 27, 2005 Posted January 27, 2005 don't get sucked in man its not worth your feelings, i learned that the hard way. don't stress it man, the right girl is out there waiting for you.
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