Ryan2009 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I wouldn't let it bother you that much. Those pictures are just part of his past. It's not like he has feelings for his exes still. He's not still carrying a torch for them and calling them on the phone.
FitChick Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 It's not like he has feelings for his exes still. He's not still carrying a torch for them and calling them on the phone. As far as she knows...
SYLLPalmer Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Seriously, did EVERYONE miss the part where he said he would switch them to private? Then he is the only one that can see them right? She is still mad he would like to keep pictures of his life. Part of his life was kissing these girls. Big deal... I think she is the one being unreasonable and selfish here. She wants to be the center of his world not only right now and in the future but the PAST which she wasn't even a part of?? I don't get how hes the bad guy here at all... You two (FB stud BF) are rare birds. Hit up the OP for his FB link because it sounds like a potential new friendship could bud here. You can compare bed post notches for kicks and go cruising for orgy mates together.
Leigh 87 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Whatever. I'm done with this relationship. If he prefers looking at pictures of him kissing other girls and making me upset, clearly he doesn't give a ****. He cares more about his memories with THEM than me. End of story. I totally agree. I would also dump him. It's not a normal action of a man that is totally head over heels in love with a woman. He has virtually no pictures of you together. Yet he has many pics of him kissing his exes. Most guys who are really into a girl don't do this. There is a very small chance your bf is the rare exception to this rule. What's worse. ... he didn't care that these pictures of his exes and him making out bothered you. At best, he is settling with you. He may really like you as a person but he certainly doesn't regard you as the love of his life: if he was crazy about you, do you honestly believe thatnhe would want to keep pictures of him and his exes making out all over Facebook. For all to see.... I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know what it is like to be with a guy who isn't truly in love with me. Their actions eventually show that they're not 100% in love with you.
Tayken Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I keep hearing this "head over heels in love"...there is no such thing in real life when it comes to adults, it's a myth. Now teenagers might have something similar in puppy love
Leigh 87 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I keep hearing this "head over heels in love"...there is no such thing in real life when it comes to adults, it's a myth. Now teenagers might have something similar in puppy love I know guys who are like that about their girlfriends. They are pretty crazy about them and tend to think about them constantly. Head over heals is synonymous with : being smitten with someone, being really into a person, being crazy about someone. . There are many guys who find girlfriends who they are very much into.. they don't have pictures of their exes all over their Facebook yet fail to have any pictures of their current gf. I just don't think a normal, emotionally healthy guy would act in that manner if he was very much into the relationship. 1
Phantom888 Posted February 21, 2014 Posted February 21, 2014 I keep hearing this "head over heels in love"...there is no such thing in real life when it comes to adults, it's a myth. Now teenagers might have something similar in puppy love Off topic. And untrue. I used to think that love was just a fairy tale, until that first hello, until that first smile....and if I had to do it all again....I wouldn't change a things...cus love is everlasting. When you meet that perfect partner....your whole self goes nuts and your mind is flipped inside out. I mean, it's almost scary how the body reacts when it knows you've found THE ONE. I didn't think that would ever happen to me...and then BAM! It happened! If you have never felt this way about anyone, then you just need to be patient and wait.... it will happen when you least expect. 3
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