fluffy84 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I finally got the courage to walked my butt up to the shy guy that I have a crush on and said this to him, "your extremely attractive" he response "Oh hahah thanks" (That was a nervous laugh) Guys, how would you feel if a women gave you that compliment?
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I would assume there was an agenda involved. Curious, how old are you both?
Author fluffy84 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 I would assume there was an agenda involved. Curious, how old are you both? I'm 29 and he look like he is 25
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I'm 29 and he look like he is 25 Interesting. I don't know, I personally would assume there was something up with that. Like you were joking or trying to pull a fast one on me.
Author fluffy84 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 Interesting. I don't know, I personally would assume there was something up with that. Like you were joking or trying to pull a fast one on me. I don't get it hahha this shy guy been staring at me and I know for sure he have a crush on me. I just want to let him know he is attractive and my wishful thinking hope that he will have the courage to come speak to me. 2
MrMeh Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 If a girl I found attractive told me that, then I think I would have the biggest smile on my face. If he doesn't say anything for a couple of days then just give yourself a pat on the back for being positively upfront.
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I am quite shy guy and would love a compliment now and then however most women dont even give a look or a smile.
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I don't get it hahha this shy guy been staring at me and I know for sure he have a crush on me. I just want to let him know he is attractive and my wishful thinking hope that he will have the courage to come speak to me. If I was him, I would just go up to you and say hello "hows your day" or hows the weather, maybe exchagne Skype details and cell phone numbers.
Tayken Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I am quite shy guy and would love a compliment now and then however most women dont even give a look or a smile. If you said the stuff in BOLD...how are the women suppose to give you a smile then, when you don't engage them? I constantly get the "you have a nice smile, and it helps that my pearly whites are actually white...so when I smile, it's like "shine bright like a diamond" It makes me blush though, and this is usually from all demographics of women 2
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 If you said the stuff in BOLD...how are the women suppose to give you a smile then, when you don't engage them? I constantly get the "you have a nice smile, and it helps that my pearly whites are actually white...so when I smile, it's like "shine bright like a diamond" It makes me blush though, and this is usually from all demographics of women I am shy but I do smile if a women exchanges eye contact with me in a supermarket checkout queue but must people say " I like your accent" since I speak in a nice soft spoken English accent. I was born in Surrey,England.
somedude81 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Ah, it's good to know that good looks can overcome shyness ..... Next time, walk up to him and say, "your cute" and give him a piece of paper with your phone number on it. 2
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Ah, it's good to know that good looks can overcome shyness ..... Next time, walk up to him and say, "your cute" and give him a piece of paper with your phone number on it. I would respond to that in a heartbeat. Would give u my skype name also so we can chat anytime. I also quite tall so it does help with my good looks. 1
Author fluffy84 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 I would respond to that in a heartbeat. Would give u my skype name also so we can chat anytime. I also quite tall so it does help with my good looks. Hahah I'll ask for his number but, before i do that, I will need to make sure he is single. 1
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Hahah I'll ask for his number but, before i do that, I will need to make sure he is single. Well I would of course do a quick check for a wedding band before asking a number.
kart180 Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Hahah I'll ask for his number but, before i do that, I will need to make sure he is single. Just FYI, I am single
Author fluffy84 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 Just FYI, I am single That is nice to know and to answer your other question...No, he does not have a ring on his left finger. 1
DL2mer Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 (edited) Just from a shy guy, I would talk to him some more, find out what you need to know, if he doesn't ask you out then you might need to bite the bullet and ask him out yourself. That's if your really interested, and its not some kinda thing where you and your friends are trying to see who can get a hard to get guy. Edited February 20, 2014 by DL2mer Forgot something 2
Emilia Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I think a more subtle compliment would have worked better. Commenting on something he was wearing or whatever. Because he is shy, he is probably feeling the pressure even more. 2
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