StanIey Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 (edited) Hi Guys and Ladies! This is my first post in here and here goes my story: We started dating last year January and we decided to be together officially in early February 2013. For the next 3 months we were very loving - playing games together, chatting, dating and sleeping together. However, my university studies requires us to go to Glasgow for summer project which is a duration of 28 days +. Due to the big time difference, we couldn't talk to each other much but still we did chat. The hell started when I flew back and wanted to give her the presents i got from Glasgow. I went to her school and waited till she is dismissed and she was angry that I gave her a surprise and didn't want to meet me. So I had to go home with the presents that day. We had silent war like for 1 month and we are both trying to argue our point but being tired of all and I truly love her, I decided to step down and apologised. Then we got together slightly better off. In October 2013, she sent me a very love-filled message and said she loves me lots for our monthsary. However, when I got a feeling that something was't right the very next day was that she didn't replies to any of my messages and I got a little worried and suspicious. Remembering she gave me her FB account user and id, I went in to check. Sure enough, I found that she is (when I logged in) chatting with this guy from another country and they were talking dirty! (like really dirty!!! with pictures of the guy - if you know what i meant). Then she told him that when she is home she would send him pictures of her. And sure enough, once she got home, she stripped and took pictures and sent him (semi-nude) but she stopped there when he asked her to reveal more cause her parents called for her. That very day I confronted her via phonecall cause she said she didn't want to meet. And she felt so bad and she knows how sad I am especially when she knows that I love her alot and worst still doing such stuffs right after that message. I thought she decided to be faithful but that was only a day after that FB incident. The second day, she was chatting with other guy online and when I asked, she said they were just good friends. Then I told her I am going to give her my trust. After some time, I found out they broke up and they in fact did actually were in a relationship. And with the power of social media, another guy hitted on her and though many warned her bout his playfulness (with girls) she said he changed and gave him a chance. She told me that this guy is hitting on him and she said she isn't going to like him at all. But days later, they were in a relationship but broke off soon after. And now, this GIRL appeared (having broken off with her girlfriend) she was like the middleman between me and my girl. So this middleman knew whats happening between us. And my girl got close to her and when I asked her, she told me off that she is STRAIGHT and they were just good friends. So I told her I trust you then. Weeks later, they declared that they are officially in a relationship. (Bare in mind that during all these hell, our status were at patching to just friends but there was no clear breakup at all...) And thats the last straw I can handle and I commenced my No Contact on her. Reason being I am really sick of why she kept lying to me one after another when she told me from the start of our relationship that she do not like me to lie (and I didn't). Sigh ... Today's my 2nd day of NC and I hope things will get better as days go by. STAN. Edited February 20, 2014 by StanIey Title Change
oz-missy Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 She sounds like a bag of crazy. No contact is an awesome step you're taking. It may suck for a little while but you will be so glad to not have her craziness in your life. 1
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