megansue13 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Okay I will try my best to make this short...I met this guy and a month after getting to know him, we started dating. It was the best relationship of my life. He texted me everyday and couldn't keep his eyes off of me. I absolutely adored him, but it was obvious he liked me a little more...Now we only dated a month (which is why I don't understand why I can't get over him). Anyways, I broke up with him because I thought we were moving too fast. I got scared and did the only thing I could think of - run away. I was a jerk when breaking up with him. How I did it was very very cold. I know it was stupid and immature of me to break up with him, and I would do ANYTHING to take the back. He was very hurt, and tried to get me to not break up with him. He even said he was falling in love with me. Anyways, a few days after I broke up with him I realized how much I wanted him..(I know I was being cruel). I tried to get him back but he said that he doesn't know what he wants, but after a while he told me it was over. I was crushed. I didn't contact him for about a month to try to get over him. I found out he was pursuing a new girl a few weeks after we broke up. (He still likes her to this day, but she wont date him) He texted me asking how I was doing a month after we broke up. He acted super cheerful, I was a bit cautious. Then here is when my big mistake comes. I texted him a few days after that saying "I made a mistake..." And he said "not the time" I asked him why he doesn't ever want to talk about it. He never replied...a few days later I basically said that I was sorry for pressuring him to talk about it, and hopefully we can be friends without any awkwardness? He said that's fine. He has been cold ever since...its been two months since we broke up. And I can't get over him! I mean, weve been broken up longer than we were dating! I act like I'm happy when I am around him (we never speak though), but inside I'm dying! I just want him back! Trust me, I've tried everything to get over him. He was the best relationship I ever had, and we were SO compatible with each other. Ive tried so many things to get him back....but I made so many mistakes. And now he is obsessed with a new girl (I don't understand why he keeps trying to get her when shes made it clear she doesn't like him) and has probably completely forgotten about me...HELP!
Grumpybutfun Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 You sound very young so my advice to you is to wrk on yourself, become the best person you can be and figure out what you want out of life and a future relationship. Then, figure out why you are afraid of getting too close to people, and why you thought it was okay to treat someone who was good to you like dirt. He did the right thing by moving on. I suggest you do the same. G
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