louthedo Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 My girlfriend works with this guy who does not like me. The reason is because one da he thought I was staring him down. When in fact I wasn't. I didn't even know why he would say that when I didn't even look at him so know when I walk by him at her work he just stares at me. Part of me wants to confront him but I don't want to cause a scene. My girlfriend doesnt work with him a lot and doesn't mention him at all really. The last time she did, she said he was a jerk. Today she took a picture of him and posted it on facebook saying "You are lame Jeff!" (thats his name) should i be worried about him?
d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I don't think you should be worried about him. Based on the fact that they are co-workers, alone, doesn't mean he will steal her from you. Based upon this macho staring thing you two seem to have going on, --again alone -- I have no reason to perceive that he's a threat to you. What is there to worry about?
d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 i havent stared! Fine. But he stares at you & you said that he does this because he thought you are staring at him the 1st time. Either way, I still don't think based on what you have posted that there is anything to worry about.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Could be a bird dog alert here. Don't let him bait you into making a scene when your girlfriend is around. As far as she knows hes so far beneath you that you don't even acknowledge his existence. Just ignore him like you don't even know hes there. Hopefully, he will get tired of trying to bait you and give up. 90% of the time that should be the end of it. Now if he steps it up you will have to give him a redirect. Again this happens no where near your girlfriend. Get him in private and just one hitter quitter him. Leave him there in a pool of blood and piss and get to stepping. Now its important you tell your girlfriend first if it comes to that. Your story is this guy cornered me, got aggressive and I had to defend myself. She will believe it because she trusts you and he has demonstrated outright aggression toward you already. Go on to say I only hit him one time to get out of there. He will try to make some BS up but by then its too late. LOL And done. He learns not to be such a wanna be tough guy bag o douche. You get to walk with your girlfriend without some dork staring at you. And she feels more comfortable knowing you can take care of business.
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