moo Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 i really dont think you should read anything at all into that comment it sounds to me like he didnt want to come across to eager and was trying to gauge things from your angle he probably thinks wow im 33 and ive got this georgeous 26 year old, i better not be too eager and scare her away believe in yourself you spaz (that was a joke)
Author elle naturelle Posted February 26, 2005 Author Posted February 26, 2005 What is so funny is that I am really one of the most confident woman people know... I am successfull, beautiful and full of love and life... making decisions for people left, right and center.... But when it comes to me and decisions.. I just get so caught up I cant think right! Almost like a feeling of being able to rely on others for support for once. I really appreciate your comments and look forward to the idea that it could be just that... feeling me out. Nevertheless, I will go out, have a great time and see if he calls. Time will tell as it usually does and I refuse to be left behind while other opportunities arise. OK.. that was the advice I would give a friend or consult to a client... A girl like me just needs reassurance... atleast once in a while, especially when it comes to L-O-V-E! (L-I-K-E for all you skeptics)...
Author elle naturelle Posted February 26, 2005 Author Posted February 26, 2005 I would like to post a pic? Profile didnt have that option... what do I do? you never know, I could be in here a while, whether I like it or not!
alphamale Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 i have not read all the posts here but it sound like he is utilizing you for convenient sex without a real relationship, ELLE NATURELLE. most men will do this if they are given a chance. if you want to continue the relationship that is fine but you should also date and see other men. who knows, when you hook up seriously with another dude then MR. Uncertainty may wake up and smell the coffee. Jealousy is a powerful tool in one's emotional trickery handbag.
moo Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 you would do well alpha male to read the rest of the posts elle naturelle is now talking about a new relationship
Author elle naturelle Posted February 27, 2005 Author Posted February 27, 2005 Thanks for everything everyone. I am going to focus my efforts on this new potential relationship, taking things slow and being open and honest with my expectations. So far so good, he called me from the park with his son and we will be getting together this week and next weekend. Note to self: Breath and take it slow! Keep posted...
Linlin Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 Do keep us posted. Remember to act interested but not overly eager. Easier said than done right!!! As for me, I am not going to email him tomorrow. I am going to wait and see if he emails me. I am not going to bring up running into him at the show unless he brings it up and thn I will blow it off as a joke kind of thing, like "good first impression my kids make, eh!" Will let you know what happens.
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