Beachlife88 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 The guy I was dating for 3 months went back to his ex gf of 4.5 years. They broke up in June. He was seeing someone before me and wasn't in contact with his ex so I figured I was safe from being a rebound. I asked him yesterday if everything was ok because he felt distant. He told me in the Midst of a lot going on he started talking to his ex again and they are back together. I was devastated. I haven't connected with a guy like this since my ex of 4 years. So I was excited about him. They broke up because he works nights and didn't see her enough. She came back bc she realized she can't find a connection with anyone else that she had with him. It feels unfair she took him for granted. I didn't but I get hurt. He wants to remain friends I can't though. I guess I'm just venting bc I'm hurt
894hjk Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Yeh I've been there b4. All u can do is go NC and hope they split up! But that's not healthy thinking. Poor u that's horrible.
d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 As you have found out rebounds are not limited to the 1st post break up relationship. I'm sorry you got hurt. Him saying he wants to be friends is just people say when they are trying to be kind & not be jerks. He doesn't mean it. It also wouldn't be healthy for you. Let him go & move on. 2
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