Keenly Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I've been texting this girl for about a week. ( she just called me back, for some reason... right as I'm typing this.) She suggested talking on the phone on a previous night, but I was tired and just wasn't feeling up to the socializing. She asked me again tonight and I felt it wouldn't really be right to bail again so I agreed and called her. 20 minutes, and some of the most painful slurred mumbling I've ever heard, repeating the same words and phrases over and over and over, A playful "You're terrible." x 15 and another playful "I'm gonna smack you upside your head" another x 15. I'm so frustrated because over text she seemed like such a nice, intelligent girl. I asked her if she had been drinking, she said no. So I basically think she is either on prescription drugs, or heroin. The slurred speech was that bad. Anyway... That's all. I just had to share my frustration / utter disbelief that I just wasted all that time and social energy.
Eggplant Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 My small OLD experience also confirms it's not worth investing any hope, emotion, or time until you've met a live person. 2
Phoe Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 wow. grrr I want you to find a lovely girl Keenly!!
Author Keenly Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 wow. grrr I want you to find a lovely girl Keenly!! She has called me 3 times since I posted this thread. 15 minutes? X_x but thank you. Edit: make that 4 1
Barbarossa Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 At least you didn't meet in person just to find out about her poor vernacular. Keep your head up dating is a numbers game 1
Author Keenly Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 At least you didn't meet in person just to find out about her poor vernacular. Keep your head up dating is a numbers game I'm much happier than anyone could understand. In person, I doubt I would have had the strength to handle that like I did. It would have been awkward as hell, and I would have sat through it because I would feel too bad if I just got up and left. Hooray.....? 1
Barbarossa Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I'm much happier than anyone could understand. In person, I doubt I would have had the strength to handle that like I did. It would have been awkward as hell, and I would have sat through it because I would feel too bad if I just got up and left. Hooray.....? Hopefully she will stop calling you might have a clinger on your hands. Although it's frustrating you live in a beautiful state with tons of beautiful people. It's only a matter of time before you find a winner.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 The girl got nervous texting you so she got drunk to talk on the phone. Call her in the morning and I bet she sounds hung over as hell. LOL 2
PegNosePete Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 This is why you have a phone call before meeting in person! To weed out the unsuitable ones! Be glad she's just ringing your phone 4 times, not knocking on your door...
BikerAccnt Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 You really need to get some luck rolling your way. Luckily, my phone conversations have all been of the sober type.
FitChick Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 That's why I always insist on one or more calls. Hate to waste gas driving.
Tayken Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 She has called me 3 times since I posted this thread. 15 minutes? X_x but thank you. Edit: make that 4 Ah....the old clingy move. You know what you have to do now right?
kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Text convos are a LOT different from phone or in person convos. However, I always use both as screening measures before a first meeting. This chick would not pass with me.
deathandtaxes Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Heck man, just ask her out already and see how she holds up in person!
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