kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Either Im lazy as ****, or I just cant be bothered with boring chicks. How do you guys deal with OLD or Tinder girls who are interested but just boring? This chick is attractive, but Im finding it hard to even give a fvk to hang out with her. Its like, on one hand the girl is cute and attractive, and I like meeting new people. On the other hand, I dont wanna end up on a boring and awkward date with some chick that doesnt know how to make conversation. I almost dont wanna even ask for the digits. 1
Barbarossa Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Maybe she's more attentive in person I would give her a shot on a cheap date like coffee
Author kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 Maybe she's more attentive in person I would give her a shot on a cheap date like coffee Doubt she will get such an invitation from me. Like I said, I wanna avoid wasting my time on an awkward meeting lol
Barbarossa Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Doubt she will get such an invitation from me. Like I said, I wanna avoid wasting my time on an awkward meeting lol If you have a plethora of other options sure blow her off. If not a short investment of your time might pay off big in dividends especially if she's attractive. 1
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Boring quiet girls can be some of the best between the sheets. Sometimes they don't talk much not because they are shy but because they don't want to scare you away with their skank scent. If you really don't give a f*ck then maybe you can try this... This is a phone thing btw so get the digits. Tell her you think she might be boring and awkward. But your willing to give her one shot to take YOU out and prove she is a fun girl. Ask her what she wants to do then shut up. The next one to talk loses. She might give a little resistance but if she into you and you know how to work it she will come up with ideas. Pick something you like to do anyway. That way if she is a dud you can enjoy yourself without her. LOL Now she is gonna go out of her way to show YOU she is fun on that date. All you have to do is decide what kind of fun you want? You following? I should stop I feel like I'm sending guys out with bazookas to shoot rabbits. Anyway, good luck and have fun!
Author kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 What does she look like? I dunno, like youre everyday cute suburban girl lolBoring quiet girls can be some of the best between the sheets. Sometimes they don't talk much not because they are shy but because they don't want to scare you away with their skank scent. If you really don't give a f*ck then maybe you can try this... This is a phone thing btw so get the digits. Tell her you think she might be boring and awkward. But your willing to give her one shot to take YOU out and prove she is a fun girl. Ask her what she wants to do then shut up. The next one to talk loses. She might give a little resistance but if she into you and you know how to work it she will come up with ideas. Pick something you like to do anyway. That way if she is a dud you can enjoy yourself without her. LOL Now she is gonna go out of her way to show YOU she is fun on that date. All you have to do is decide what kind of fun you want? You following? I should stop I feel like I'm sending guys out with bazookas to shoot rabbits. Anyway, good luck and have fun! I might try this...but likely will just stop replying. Gals need to show some freaking effort. Too many chicks are lazy with convo. Last time I went out with a girl who I had a lame conversation with, it ended up being one of the most boring and awkward dates Ive ever been on.
ascendotum Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Tell her you think she might be boring and awkward. But your willing to give her one shot to take YOU out and prove she is a fun girl. Ask her what she wants to do then shut up. The next one to talk loses. .... Now she is gonna go out of her way to show YOU she is fun on that date. All you have to do is decide what kind of fun you want? You following? I guess this comes under the 'getting a girl to validate herself to you' scenarios discussed in PUA community. I've seen it work a number of times and told by a former player he used it often because it worked a treat (but the girls already had some interest in the guy, and were just acting aloof)
organizedchaos Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I dunno, like youre everyday cute suburban girl lol I might try this...but likely will just stop replying. Gals need to show some freaking effort. Too many chicks are lazy with convo. Last time I went out with a girl who I had a lame conversation with, it ended up being one of the most boring and awkward dates Ive ever been on. Yes, I've come across some very lazy and one sided conversations on tinder.
Poppygoodwill Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Boring quiet girls can be some of the best between the sheets. Sometimes they don't talk much not because they are shy but because they don't want to scare you away with their skank scent. If you really don't give a f*ck then maybe you can try this... This is a phone thing btw so get the digits. Tell her you think she might be boring and awkward. But your willing to give her one shot to take YOU out and prove she is a fun girl. Ask her what she wants to do then shut up. The next one to talk loses. She might give a little resistance but if she into you and you know how to work it she will come up with ideas. Pick something you like to do anyway. That way if she is a dud you can enjoy yourself without her. LOL Now she is gonna go out of her way to show YOU she is fun on that date. All you have to do is decide what kind of fun you want? You following? I should stop I feel like I'm sending guys out with bazookas to shoot rabbits. Anyway, good luck and have fun! Wow. How classy, to try to undermine a person's confidence as a first step to getting into her pants. What a prize it would be to win a date with a guy like this. I hope you don't have daughters or sisters who other jerks are trying to do this to. 5
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Wow. How classy, to try to undermine a person's confidence as a first step to getting into her pants. What a prize it would be to win a date with a guy like this. I hope you don't have daughters or sisters who other jerks are trying to do this to. I actually have two teenage sons? Do you feel safer now? He said shes boring. I just gave him a quick way to find out what she really is or is not. Like I said she might just be boring online but a wildcat in person. In the dating world women have so much tilted in their favor. But if you understand how they think men can balance the scales a little. I don't feel too bad about teaching young guys how attraction works. It gives them more chances to meet more women. And in the end, hopefully know what they really want in a mate. Certainly what I suggested is no more underhanded then what women do everyday. Just read this board and you will figure that out pretty quickly.
ascendotum Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Wow. How classy, to try to undermine a person's confidence as a first step to getting into her pants. What a prize it would be to win a date with a guy like this. I hope you don't have daughters or sisters who other jerks are trying to do this to. As the poster responded to you, its not like plenty of girls/women don't play games or use psychology/tactics from Cosmo or text books or care about undermining a less attractive or insecure guy's confidence. A guy telling the girl he finds her a little boring (when she is) is not exactly lying is he. He's also not some sort of Svengali with power over the will power of the girl. She's free to respond any way she wants...even to tell him to rack off if she's insulted. He is not exploiting her. He is taking advantage of his understanding of the behaviors and motivations in members of the other sex though. Many consider learning about psychology is an advantage in dealing with others in their careers and in business. I don't see why dating should be off limits. 1
Tayken Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 How do you guys deal with OLD or Tinder girls who are interested but just boring? This chick is attractive, but Im finding it hard to even give a fvk to hang out with her. Its like, on one hand the girl is cute and attractive, and I like meeting new people. On the other hand, I dont wanna end up on a boring and awkward date with some chick that doesnt know how to make conversation. Ahahahahah...the two are usually synonymous unfortunately, and that is what I harp on about here when I say one needs more substance than just the infatuation. Yes you have a cute face or banging body...what else is there cos I am going to get bored soon of that I think you will such people are also self centered, feel entitled, and probably have a rubbish work ethic. So unless you are looking for a trophy squeeze.....walk away I look at the profile, and if there isn't anything about them having interests/hobbies, likes to read, volunteer work, active in some way shape or form....I move on down the corridor When you give the benefit of the doubt, and they only respond with one - two liners.....you really need to move fast. One late 40s woman recently told me "I don't read", and you can see that in her response.....her profession also listed as "administration" (very generic as she could be a person filing paper in a warehouse)
MrTurk Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Either Im lazy as ****, or I just cant be bothered with boring chicks. How do you guys deal with OLD or Tinder girls who are interested but just boring? This chick is attractive, but Im finding it hard to even give a fvk to hang out with her. Its like, on one hand the girl is cute and attractive, and I like meeting new people. On the other hand, I dont wanna end up on a boring and awkward date with some chick that doesnt know how to make conversation. I almost dont wanna even ask for the digits. That's exactly what I've found with a lot if women I met or talked to from OLD...... I have to initiate and lead the entire conversation every time I talk to them. I know not all women are like this, just stating what I've experienced. A lot of women complain that they want to be liked for other reasons besides just there looks… But in order to do that, the woman has to know how to be a good conversationalist and have a general knowledge of something more than reality TV shows, or gossip about the women she works with. 1
MissBee Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Either Im lazy as ****, or I just cant be bothered with boring chicks. How do you guys deal with OLD or Tinder girls who are interested but just boring? This chick is attractive, but Im finding it hard to even give a fvk to hang out with her. Its like, on one hand the girl is cute and attractive, and I like meeting new people. On the other hand, I dont wanna end up on a boring and awkward date with some chick that doesnt know how to make conversation. I almost dont wanna even ask for the digits. Don't do it? I'm not being trite here, but I feel it's fairly straightforward. If someone is that boring why be bothered? Just don't bother with them anymore, I wouldn't. If a man is good looking and "nice" but otherwise very uninteresting and boring, there is no point and I move on. Having a personality and being someone I am excited to talk to is necessary for me, so if talking to you is like pulling teeth, I very quickly lose interest, no matter how "cute and attractive" you may be. Unless of course you just want sex, then you can tolerate the boredom and hope things lead there in spite of that, but even then, if a man is boring I can only imagine he is as equally lame in bed so wouldn't stick around even if that was my objective.
Author kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 I already stopped talking and blocked her in order to avoid any questions as to why I stopped responding. Im just gonna do that from now on if a woman is that dull. Its a shame so many are.
theothersully Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Actually, if a girl is boring and not very conversational online or in texts, one word answers and stuff, she doesn't like you, bro. I've had that happen once or twice and completely lost all interest from my end. What I do is bring a shy girl out of her shell through fun, witty conversation. If you still get barely any response, she just isn't into you. I have met most OLD types after just 2 to 4 messages. I've found that if you yourself are fun to talk to and nit boring, the real first meet up always goes fine.
Author kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 Actually, if a girl is boring and not very conversational online or in texts, one word answers and stuff, she doesn't like you, bro. I've had that happen once or twice and completely lost all interest from my end. What I do is bring a shy girl out of her shell through fun, witty conversation. If you still get barely any response, she just isn't into you. I have met most OLD types after just 2 to 4 messages. I've found that if you yourself are fun to talk to and nit boring, the real first meet up always goes fine.Im particularly talking about Tinder here. I agree with what you said, however, some of these chicks still message me or reply despite being lame in conversation. Which is why I just go the block route.
Thegreatestthing Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Don't waste your time on these boring ones,time is limited.
Tayken Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 Don't waste your time on these boring ones,time is limited. Hopefully he is not drunk in love
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