JPP Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I'm 16 and always have gone to school with this girl. We would talk sometimes, but recently we started talking a lot. We talk in school, and at night we'll text for 3-4 hours, sometimes longer on the weekends. She'll flirt with me, but I sort of notice her doing it with every boy. Even tough she does this, I feel like there is something there, but don't want to screw up our friendship if she doesn't feel the same way. Hopefully someone on here can help me out. -Jake
FrustratedGuy91 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 You miss every shot you don't take, right? I've been in your shoes more than a few times. If you ask her out, you have a chance of her saying yes. Sure, she could say no, but if you don't ask her out you'll either stop talking to her or slowly drift into the dreaded friend zone. And let me tell you, you DON'T want to be there. So yeah, unless you man up and ask her you'll never get what you want. Also while she may be flirty, she obviously puts a lot of her time only texting you, so that should be a sign of interest.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Does she play with her hair a lot when she talks to you? Does she put on lip gloss a lot or lick her lips? Does she look down at her feet if you say something sort of sexual to her? Does she touch you frequently? Does she ever touch your thigh with her hand? Does she comment on how you smell? Or what you are wearing? Does she make it a point to tell you that she "just friends" with other guys? Does she go out of her way to tell you she doesn't have a boyfriend? Does she laugh too hard at your jokes? Does she ever ask you how she looks or if you like her new perfume, shoes etc?
exileonmainstreet Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Friends come and go. But finding a girl that really is special to you is far more rare. If you think you have a chance, why not go for it? Maybe you're misinterpreting her actions towards others. Perhaps she's not flirting in a romantic way, but being friendly. If she says no, it really isn't the end of the world. Before you know it, you'll find another girl you want to sweep off her feet.
shinealight Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Ask her out before she finds someone else! Grab the chance while you can mate
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