unbeknown Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Okay hopefully this is in the right place. I met a girl when I was at Uni (she was at a differnt uni at the time but in the same city). We got chatting on an online dating site, POF, and got on really well. Sending really long texts and messages, but when it came down to meeting for one reason or other we never seemed to do it. She flaked on me and I flaked on her. I weren't even bothered as I was persuing other girls at the time. I regret this SO SO SO much now that it actually breaks me. She regrets it too and always says to me "why do you have to live so far argh" So anyway she graduated and left to go back home (200 miles away, its about a 3 hour journey). We still stayed in touch during this time, it's been about a year and half of chatting now. Then one day in a text she tells me that she is visiting her family in a city up north. As fate would be I am also in that city for the weekend for a concert so we finally meet up and it feels like we've known each other forever. Both hit it off so well exactly like our texts. Following this a few weeks later she is in my city for a friends party and asks to see me if I'm free in the day time before the party. She's really in to me throughout the meet and neither of us want to part ways. Sadly we have to though but plan a night away in a few weeks time together. That was last week and we had the most amazing time together (we had sex, but just spending so much time with her was the bestest thing). I've never met anyone like her before. She is pretty much the exact same version of me but as a female ha. It's destroying me though knowing how much time we wasted when we were both living in the same city and the fact that she now lives so far away. We only text each other every 2-4 days which seems quite long in comparison to other girls I've texted but this has always been the case since day one. It's not like she suddenly takes ages to reply. There's no doubt that she likes me but I'm just wondering what do we even have here. Should I just leave things as they are? We casually keep in touch and meet up whenever we do or what? Why does life have to be so cruel meeting the 'one' but then she lives so far away haha. I guess I'm just writing this down as a way to get it off my chest as since spending the night together I've been feeling a little lost. Thanks for any input though, Cheers
CalvinM Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 If I can give any advice, take it slow and don't be afraid to see people locally as well. If it's meant to be, it will happen eventually.
justwhoiam Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 So you text her and she replies after 2 to 4 days? If she's not playing games, I'd guess she's just enjoying your company as side entertainment. Being fine with that is just up to you.
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