emotionsmessmeup Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 not answer rigth away but call back? call back after how long...call back and say what... he never leaves a voicemail..
tattoomytoe Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 well if someone doesnot leave me a voice mail, then i usually will not call back. apparently it is not important if they do not leave a message.
greenhorn Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 Well i am not able to comprehend the situation clearly. Does he call you and asks you to call him back.Well then he is playing a mind game on you and this can be called as screwing your brain. He is trying to put psychological pressure on you so that when you call him up you would say something in the process and he would hear from you rather than he saying anything. By your previous posts i understand that you have initiated the NC if this is so then maintain the NC.If he has dumped you and now asks you to call him back i dont find any reason or justification to call him back. I personally feel that it is very difficult to be friend with whom you once loved.But many ppl in this forum have said that they have done this and so if you have something of that kinda in your mind to be friends with him then you may want to call him up but take care in what you converse you should not unknowingly drop a hint to him that you want to be back in the old relationship. I dont know i made sense or not cause as i said i am not able to comprehend the situation by your post.
blind_otter Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 what to do when the ex calls? (1) Don't answer or// (2) Hang up the phone without answering
Recommended Posts