Eudemon15 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 We met sometime in 2009 through a friend. Became pretty close and eventually she moved to the area i lived in and started going to my school. I was in like grade 11. We use to talk everyday, on the phone or messaging because I would think that we liked each other. I liked her but she friend-zoned me (oftenly showed feelings though but never actually got with me). I remained her friend because we were young, and I really liked her, she was the only girl i ever talked too that much and share that much info with. she was cool with my mom as well. in my last year of being in high school things got awkward a few times. we argued because I continues to pursue her, She always said we were just gonna be friends. but whenever we argued and got into it, We always made up. We WERE BESTFRIENDS (DONT EVER GET INTO THE FRIENDZONE GUYS, IT SUCKS) we always used the word love. She use to say 'I love you' now we don't speak. For a guy id openly say that I cut off people toooo much. Its easy for me to just stop talking to a person. even if i like them, I've always done this as a way of protection. I would usually ignore her and she would ignore me and then make up. after I graduated and moved away to college everything changed. Our talk times decreased. we barley skyped (I would always ask her but It always was a excuse). this caused me to drift.. on top of that i had school and other girls around so I just placed her on the backend .. seeing that we were just friends (even tho i wanted more) .. during college i would still talk to her here and there, never consistent, and as the years went by we talk less and less. The last time we actually talk was about 4 months ago and I was really cold with her .. she needed help with her laptop and i helped...when she got whatever done with it she was so excited and I still just didn't really answer (short answers). She moved to the other side of the world for school. am sure she's meeting other guys so I never make attempts to even bring up dating her again. my question is where should i go from here with this girl?? our friendship is destroyed. she still the girl i want but could never have. distance is also a factor but its pretty hard to stop thinking about her. we go months without talking now. Is it even worth it anymore?
Philosoraptor Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Move on and grow up. The rest of your life has changed, so change this as well. There are plenty of women out there who you can start fresh with. No need to waste your time on someone you have on a pedestal who has already shown you through her action that she doesn't belong there. 1
emva07 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Whenever you have to ask, the answer is no. That and I read the story. Whenever it has this much drama....move on.
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