TheBlingRing14 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 This isn't necessarily a breakup persay. And those of you who saw my other thread probably know I dodged a bullet. But, I can't help but be a little bit...annoyed. I had a date Friday night. It went...fine. Conversation was relatively easy, but sometimes a little awkward. He was very plain in stating his interest. I brought him a book to borrow, and he said he would get it back to me when we see each other again. He kissed me. Again, he seemed very interested. This continued the next day, when he called to let me know he had a good time, and asked when he could see me again. I didn't have an exact date in mind, but told him I would get back to him. He texted me that he really liked me and thought I was fun and nice and attractive and really wanted to go out again. Then he texted the other thing that was the basis of another thread, but doesn't have much to add to this particular conversation. Sunday, I sent him some dates I had in mind. Never heard from him. Never heard from him. Then finally, yesterday, I get a text message from him stating that he had met someone else. Someone who wants to get into a serious relationship with him, and he wants to see her too. So....we can hang out and be friends but...thanks for being a contestant anyway, basically. None of this makes sense to me, and I find it quite annoying. 1) What are the chances he just "happened" to meet someone who decided they wanted to be with him within ONE day? 2) It seems much more likely he had met someone prior and had her waiting in the wings, so to speak. If this is the case, why would he pretend to be interested in me? Why would he go so above and beyond in asking me for another date, declaring his interest, etc? Why not just cut ties? I guess I just feel duped, and it makes me mad. And, now, he has my book Sadly, this is the second time IN A ROW this has happened to me. Before I went on a vacation, this guy said he really liked me, was interested, and wanted to take the next step. Then, when I got back from vacation, what do you know, he went to a work conference and lo and behold...he met someone. I could just scream.
sw2020 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Maybe you're just dating crazy people? More importantly, was it a good book?
Author TheBlingRing14 Posted February 18, 2014 Author Posted February 18, 2014 Maybe you're just dating crazy people? More importantly, was it a good book? Yes! A VERY good book. A collector's edition.
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