wina Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 (edited) hi. i'm new here. i met my boyfriend online, through a social network. after being friends for 2 months, he proposed me to be her girlfriend. and i accept it, despite the fact that we've never met before, and i don't even look at his photos. the first 6 months, everything went well. he's caring and loving. calls me when he missed me. by the way, he's somewhere south and I'm somewhere north. we're both still studying. however, he's in his final semester while i'm in my 3rd year of university. he's 2 years older than me. along a year we've been together, we've met twice. the first time was on june, and the second one was last december. we had a lot of fun together. i could say that we're overly attached to each other. we texted everyday. we phone called every night. even to sleep. quarelling and misunderstandings are normal between us. but usually we'll be fine after a few hours. last night, he told me that he feels boring. i asked him, about what? he said he doesn't know. lately we've been silent a lot on phone rather than talking. perhaps we've been losing the ideas on what to talk about. last night he suddenly got mad, and i thought he's stressed out with all the final year projects, but he said he was fine. feeling worried, i repeatedly asked him questions whether he's okay or not. he said he's fine. but with an irritating voice, he asked me to make it simple and stop asking him lots of question. honestly, it hurts me. but i tried to understand, and remain silent until he fell asleep. i just, i don't know what to do. i texted him an apology, but he didn't reply. he texted me just now, and act normal, like we're not having a small quarrel last night, but i can feel that his texts were a bit flat. i hope you guys could share with me your ideas about this. and do tell me what should i do. perhaps i should loosen a bit? Edited February 18, 2014 by wina
TAV Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 I guess he is having a hard time with the whole LDR thing at the moment but he should share that with you, only then you can grow together. If he does not want to open up and shuts you out without giving you any reasons he is being immature and you deserve better. Re being bored; try to do other things together, as much as that is possible. Play a game together, online or a normal game that you could do over the phone or webcam. There are lots of ideas on the web about things LDR couples can do together and it will give your relationship a new wind and will give you new things to talk about and even laugh about. Good luck.
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