johnww92 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 (edited) My ex dumped me few weeks ago because she still wasn't over her other ex and just felt like she just needs to be alone right now and fix herself. Long story short we dated for like 2 months but those 2 months where amazing, like I have never met a girl like her and I dated a lot of girls in the passed. This was by far the best girlfriend I have ever had. I spent the last few weeks looking for every single way I can try get her back literally I tried everything, every time I tried no contact it only lasted a week and then I would see her out or txt her drunk and try sort it out. We got into a fight a few days ago because she got annoyed me texting her so much trying to get answers. That day I realized she's gone forever and every bit I hope I had was just an illusion to keep trying. I didn't want to go on bad terms so I texted her today and thanked her for everything and told her I had great fun and will never forget the memories we had and wished her the best of luck. She then replied and said the same thing back and I finally let her go...Ever since then I spent the rest of the night thinking about all the good times we had together I was thinking about everything from the day we first met and its making me cry so much. Every time I fall asleep I get a dream about her then wake up in tears. I have never felt like this for a girl and in the past breakups where never this bad even for longer relationships I had. I know I'll feel better eventually and move on and everyone here will say I will find someone better but I really doubt it. I will never find someone like her, I am very picky about personality and out off all the years of dating with different girls she was the only one who was just perfect for me in every way. Any sort of advice from anyone will be much appreciated. Edited February 18, 2014 by johnww92
Stranger516 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 There will be times when you find someone you think is the right person: funny, attractive, sweet, sincere, caring, honest.... EVERYTHING you've ever dreamed of. Then, out of no where, this person up and leave both emotionally and physically from your life. 2 months is not long enough to actually get to know that person for who they really are in my opinion. Did she love you for who you were? Not enough to stay with you because she was still hung up on her ex, so obviously she was not the one for you. There are many others out there who you can meet. It hurts now, of course, but it will pass. I know it may be hard to believe, but in time this will be in your past and you will have moved on. It was nice while it lasted, but now it is over and there is plenty that lies ahead. Plenty more women who may have the same attributes as this one who AREN'T still into their ex. While she may have seemed perfect in your eyes, she was not perfect after all because she is no longer around. You said you have been with plenty of other women who are not like her. There will be women who are not like her at all, somewhat like her, and just like her..... finding them is the hard part. Time heals all!
Author johnww92 Posted February 18, 2014 Author Posted February 18, 2014 There will be times when you find someone you think is the right person: funny, attractive, sweet, sincere, caring, honest.... EVERYTHING you've ever dreamed of. Then, out of no where, this person up and leave both emotionally and physically from your life. 2 months is not long enough to actually get to know that person for who they really are in my opinion. Did she love you for who you were? Not enough to stay with you because she was still hung up on her ex, so obviously she was not the one for you. There are many others out there who you can meet. It hurts now, of course, but it will pass. I know it may be hard to believe, but in time this will be in your past and you will have moved on. It was nice while it lasted, but now it is over and there is plenty that lies ahead. Plenty more women who may have the same attributes as this one who AREN'T still into their ex. While she may have seemed perfect in your eyes, she was not perfect after all because she is no longer around. You said you have been with plenty of other women who are not like her. There will be women who are not like her at all, somewhat like her, and just like her..... finding them is the hard part. Time heals all! The thing is I met her at a bad time. If I met her at another other time when she was single without any ex boyfriends on her mind I know things would have went a lot different. I know 2 months is not long but I really felt we had something special. The thing is we rushed things so fast and after how much she said one day I mean to her and make her happy..one day she just lost all feelings for me and she said she honestly doesn't know how and wishes she didn't! I will move on and maybe your right I will find someone but it probably won't be for a long time.
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