SarahJames Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 One of the hardest things, after a few months of NC, is constantly wondering if he misses you as much as you miss him. Wondering if he at least thinks about you. Wondering if random things remind him of you. Wondering how often you cross his mind, if at all. I wish I knew 1
wanting more Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 One day you'll get to the point that it doesnt matter if or when or how often he thinks of you. He'll be in your mind less and less. Then he'll be a passing thought of someone you used to know. It does get easier with time. But you do have to decide to just put him out of your mind, dont let him occupy your thoughts 1
daretotrustlove Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 I believe they do at times. They may not show it on the outside, they may push it deep down. But....yes...they do think of us. These A's hurt everyone.
BetrayedH Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 One day you'll get to the point that it doesnt matter if or when or how often he thinks of you. He'll be in your mind less and less. Then he'll be a passing thought of someone you used to know. It does get easier with time. But you do have to decide to just put him out of your mind, dont let him occupy your thoughts Yep. Aiming for 'mental' NC is a wise strategy. Easier said than done. 5
Devastated1969 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 I've only done 2 weeks and it hurts like hell... So hard and spend every hour wondering if he ever cared about me at all :-( 1
daretotrustlove Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I've only done 2 weeks and it hurts like hell... So hard and spend every hour wondering if he ever cared about me at all :-( Yes, it does hurt like hell and back a couple of times at least. I wonder the same, was it all lies, was anything he said the truth. But I have learned that words are just that.....words. We fill like a disposable person. I guess we are. Sorry your hurting. Stay strong, and for your own sake. Don't go back and make the same mistake over again, it hurts twice as much. 1
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