Loempia741 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 It's been 8 months since our break up. I tried to get her back, she wanted friendship. We had some get togethers, sex and the whole shebang but in the end she still stood firm by her decisions. I went no contact a month ago and she contacted me 2 weeks later asking why I'm cutting al ties. I responded by explaining this the time for me to distance myself from her. I was too tied up, too emotionally attached to her. She said she still cares deeply for me but has no feelings anymore. She said she was sorry. She is sincere but deep down I know she probably met or is the process of getting to know someone else to lean on. So I stay no contact, still a mess but trying to see light at the end of the tunnel and she moves on gently. 1
TiredFamilyGuy Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 " She said she still cares deeply for me but has no feelings anymore." There we are. Heartbreak is hard and you are right to think no contact is the only way. If she keeps contacting you it will be out of selfish guilt. Ignore, move on. Good luck. 1
David87 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 It's been 8 months since our break up. I tried to get her back, she wanted friendship. We had some get togethers, sex and the whole shebang but in the end she still stood firm by her decisions. I went no contact a month ago and she contacted me 2 weeks later asking why I'm cutting al ties. I responded by explaining this the time for me to distance myself from her. I was too tied up, too emotionally attached to her. She said she still cares deeply for me but has no feelings anymore. She said she was sorry. She is sincere but deep down I know she probably met or is the process of getting to know someone else to lean on. So I stay no contact, still a mess but trying to see light at the end of the tunnel and she moves on gently. Eight months is a long time to wait around for someone. It's a good thing that you finally decided to go NC. I know that it wasn't an easy decision but it was one you had to make. Stay strong and ignore.
sportzhl24 Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 It's the way of the road bro, the way of the road. Life goes on man.
Author Loempia741 Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 (edited) It's a strange feeling this losing of love.. Edited February 23, 2014 by Loempia741
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