Chi townD Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 When we first started dating she made me get tested for live sperm. She did this before she would have sex with me. She told me that we were going to have a family together and something changed. I really wanted a family, but now I will never get one. I have live sperm which is good and I'm not shooting blanks. Wait....WHAT?!?!? She made you get tested for a sperm count....and...you're only a boyfriend...REALLY?!?! Did she want past references from girls you've been with so they can give her a rating on sexual performance? Did she want you to take a Mensa exam so she can measure the possibility of how intelligent your offspring will be? Did she want to interview you family to see what kind of child you were growing up? And did she actually say that saying "NO" to her on anything would be a bad thing? Dude, RUN! Do not look back! This is a new level of bat sh*t crazy! Move on, dude. Move on! 1
lauri Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 I am 24 years old. I thought this was my last shot. I have tried to have relationships with women before but my friends have always stolen them away from me. I finally found someone who loved me for me (or so i thought) and no one was going to take that away. That's probably why I have held onto her so long up until this point. Dude, this is far from your last shot. Listen man...a girl is not going to want to be with a guy who does not have self control and confidence. I seriously think you are lacking both and I am starting to wonder how you got to the point you did. I don't want to beat up on you at all man but you gotta snap out of this. It is really worrying the things I am reading... I can tell that if you maintained to stay in that relationship with her you would not be as happy as you may think. You had to ask permission to go out, you couldn't say no and when she threw a tantrum, you just sat by and didn't stand up for yourself. Do you realize the mistakes you made when you were with her? This may be a blessing in disguise for you man, because you get out of this relationship and can take a step back. When you do that, you can regain yourself and start to move forward in a positive direction. Just promise us you won't talk to her anymore...it won't do you any good at all.
Chi townD Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Getting sperm counts done. Not meeting her family. Saying no to her would be a bad thing. Having past relationships, but ALL of his friends ended up stealing ALL of his girls. Starting to think there are a lot of bunnies hopping around here. This isn't very believable and the most "out there" story I've read on here. I think someone is having a laugh. :bunny::bunny::bunny:
Author Driftking102 Posted February 18, 2014 Author Posted February 18, 2014 Getting sperm counts done. Not meeting her family. Saying no to her would be a bad thing. Having past relationships, but ALL of his friends ended up stealing ALL of his girls. Starting to think there are a lot of bunnies hopping around here. This isn't very believable and the most "out there" story I've read on here. I think someone is having a laugh. :bunny::bunny::bunny: You can believe what you want but this is real. Yes I did have to have my sperm tested to make sure they were alive and she said no was a bad word and she wouldn't allow it. I am not joking with any of you.
Chi townD Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 You can believe what you want but this is real. Yes I did have to have my sperm tested to make sure they were alive and she said no was a bad word and she wouldn't allow it. I am not joking with any of you. Fine! Then don't say "no"! Say "BYE!!!" And move on!
Zahara Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Last shot at 24 ! Child, what wrong with you? It's only just beginning!
organizedchaos Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 I am 24 years old. I thought this was my last shot. I have tried to have relationships with women before but my friends have always stolen them away from me. I finally found someone who loved me for me (or so i thought) and no one was going to take that away. That's probably why I have held onto her so long up until this point. The only reason this may be your last shot is due to the complete mess you are emotionally. At 24 you are FAR from over. I'm 42, already been married, have a kid, and dating again and I'm not even worried that my time has past. 2
deathandtaxes Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 It's only over if you think it's over and give up, OP. There are a lot of us on this board who have been there and done that, with the scars and t-shirts to prove it. You can give up if you want. Or you can fight and learn about yourself. This will be a good life's lesson to learn at 24. 1
redbaron005 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 1. You introduce me proudly to your mom 2. You introduce me proudly to your brother 3. We make our relationship public to your friends. These should not be conditions for staying in a relationship with someone you love. They will come in her time, not yours. From experience. Show some maturity. Also, do not send that message.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I am 24 years old. I thought this was my last shot. I have tried to have relationships with women before but my friends have always stolen them away from me. I finally found someone who loved me for me (or so i thought) and no one was going to take that away. That's probably why I have held onto her so long up until this point. 24? You are young as hell, you have an artillery of shots still left in you. Hell, there are 40-year-olds on the prowl that don't have this type of self-defeatist attitude. And no offense, but that was one of the worst messages I've read. Completely spineless and self-defeating. I too cringed at much of it. 1
OhThatGirl Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 When we first started dating she made me get tested for live sperm. She did this before she would have sex with me. She told me that we were going to have a family together and something changed. I really wanted a family, but now I will never get one. I have live sperm which is good and I'm not shooting blanks. Look. Forget the rest of this mess. Guys with no self esteem tend to do dumb things when a woman says he should. But seriously... WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED DATING SHE TOLD YOU YOU NEEDED TO GET A SPERM CHECK DONE?!?!?!?! At age 23?!?!? No. This makes not one tiny bit of sense whatsoever. A girl you JUST started seeing, before sleeping with you, before committing to a life with you, when you are young and should be trying to AVOID pregnancy asks you to get this done?! You kidding me?!? Forget the fact you were afraid to ever tell her no, forget the fact you accepted her sh*tty behavior towards you, forget that you two had the most absurd relationship ever. The fact you went and jizzed in a cup for her to prove you had sperm long before ever being in a position to have children together is insane. I don't even blame her. I blame YOU for allowing this to happen. What does it matter that you've got live sperm?!? So do 99.9999% of other 23 year old men! I can't even believe there was a doctor that after hearing this nonsense felt it was worth the extra $149 to be added to trillions of dollars in medical spending to order it. *mind blown* Well, not a complete loss. We now know for sure you have testicles. Couldn't be sure after reading all your posts. Can't wait to get my 10 pts for this one. But seriously now. Come on. How did you even for a second think this was reasonable?
Author Driftking102 Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 Look. Forget the rest of this mess. Guys with no self esteem tend to do dumb things when a woman says he should. But seriously... WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED DATING SHE TOLD YOU YOU NEEDED TO GET A SPERM CHECK DONE?!?!?!?! At age 23?!?!? No. This makes not one tiny bit of sense whatsoever. A girl you JUST started seeing, before sleeping with you, before committing to a life with you, when you are young and should be trying to AVOID pregnancy asks you to get this done?! You kidding me?!? Forget the fact you were afraid to ever tell her no, forget the fact you accepted her sh*tty behavior towards you, forget that you two had the most absurd relationship ever. The fact you went and jizzed in a cup for her to prove you had sperm long before ever being in a position to have children together is insane. I don't even blame her. I blame YOU for allowing this to happen. What does it matter that you've got live sperm?!? So do 99.9999% of other 23 year old men! I can't even believe there was a doctor that after hearing this nonsense felt it was worth the extra $149 to be added to trillions of dollars in medical spending to order it. *mind blown* Well, not a complete loss. We now know for sure you have testicles. Couldn't be sure after reading all your posts. Can't wait to get my 10 pts for this one. But seriously now. Come on. How did you even for a second think this was reasonable? I just really wanted to be loved and i thought doing anything that she wanted was loved.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I just really wanted to be loved and i thought doing anything that she wanted was loved. That the type of love a pet receives. You're a human being.
lonegirl Posted February 20, 2014 Posted February 20, 2014 I just really wanted to be loved and i thought doing anything that she wanted was loved. Oh dear, no no, no! This is wrong. You will know when someone truly loves you, they won't demand you things like this girl was doing, they will work WITH you to make things better for both of you TOGETHER, not wanting things to happen on their way or yours. Believe me, you will see and feel LOVE when it happens to you. But you need to learn to love yourself first.
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