hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 So me, my boyfriend, amd his cousin (his cousins gf isnt able to make it) are going to cuba....we have not booked quite yet but my bf's cousins said some hotels charge extra for a single room so do u mind if we do 2 double beds and we can save money......he said sure i dont mind. Like what the hell..... What is that suppose to mean. This is the only time we get to have alone ...i only see him once a week and basicallly sleep with him once every few months.....sooo like what is he saysing he doesnt care to have the time alone with me....he doesnt want to make love wiht me................grrrrrrr im mad!
Hund1976 Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 I would tell him, if you're too cheap to get two rooms don't expect to get any on this trip.
tattoomytoe Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 he and his cousin canm talk about his prior, with your helpful suggestions, i am sure he will. do not fret yet.
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Author Posted January 19, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe he and his cousin canm talk about his prior, with your helpful suggestions, i am sure he will. do not fret yet. Prior.....sorry i dont understand your post! But thanks for posting...hehehe Do i say soemthing to my bf.... I feel like if he really wanted that alone time with me he would have said something. I feel like im rejected again ...sexually too
Hund1976 Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 He's probably just thinking like a cheap guy, like "well I can send my cousin out of the room for an hour, get busy, then he'll come back and we'll all go to sleep and I only have to pay for 1/2 a room" If I were you I would say something, tell him you were really looking forward to some alone time with him.
HokeyReligions Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 I'm afraid my attitude and mouth would kick in and I'd say something like "Sure, we'll invite your cousin to join us in bed too! I've always wanted to have two men at once---make sure to get extra condoms."
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Author Posted January 19, 2005 I just text him... "Hun, We can talk about this later but I feel like u don’t want to be “alone” with me on the trip. Im feeling a bit rejected lately..." I hope i didnt get him mad
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Author Posted January 19, 2005 hahahaha good idea. He was ll alike dont worry we will get him to plug his ears.... wow thats attractive
tattoomytoe Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 prior- just mean before hand...before you go on the trip.
tanbark813 Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 IMHO, I think you should phrase it as you want to be alone with him, rather than you feel like he doesn't want to be alone with you. I think that's less likely to put him on the defensive, and you're saying almost the same thing.
Merin Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 IMHO, I think you should phrase it as you want to be alone with him, rather than you feel like he doesn't want to be alone with you. I think that's less likely to put him on the defensive, and you're saying almost the same thing. Mmmmm hmmm this is an awesome idea!
tanbark813 Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Mmmmm hmmm this is an awesome idea! Thanks, suga.
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Author Posted January 19, 2005 i was a little late....i guess i put him on the defensive.....he got upset
tiki Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 Hasn't he realized that HE won't get laid either?! This is his trip too! But I loved Hokey's idea...be like "Mmmmm, one more man, ooohhh yeah"!
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 19, 2005 Author Posted January 19, 2005 no i guess he figured oh we will find time to squeeze it in here and there....ohhh how romantic. Anyways we ended up fightting...me crying cause im feeling sexually rejected these days and that was the icing on the cake.... He says your right blah blah and apologised prefusely....he says he shoudl think more before he sayd things and consider my feelings....anyways this was coming cause he turns me down for sex alot but i give it to hiim when he wants it and i finally said LISTEN this is what is going on u selfish pai in the bum!!! hehehe
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