desertsessions Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 (edited) We've been talking on and off for the last year, not a lot. Maybe a few time, just over facebook. She started calling me recently, and texting. Not a lot either, just every now (Usually when she's had a few drinks). She was always embarrassed in the morning and said.. she'd delete my number from her phone so she wouldn't do it again. I told her it was fine, and i didn't mind.. maybe just try to call in the day when I'm not sleeping. So she shot me a text the other day, we shot a couple back and forth catching up and then she said this. She said in a text, she forgot so much about the relationship we had, and she doesn't know why, cause it wasn't that long ago and if I ever really liked her, like actually liked her. I'm just kind of confused about why she would ask me this? She kind of felt like I didn't care back in the day, which i did... but my actions showed otherwise back then. Anyways, I told her I did, and she said me she was happy to hear that even where shes at now. I'm guessing she means with her boyfriend she's with now. She's been with the guy for while, so I'm confused why shes asking me these questions and asking me for advice on things. Wouldn't you go to your boyfriend for that type of stuff? Is she just trying to be friendly, or is there some kind of underlying message here? As i said, i still do care about her a lot... I just don't think it's right for me to text/call her since she's with someone new. That would be kind of disrespectful to that guy. Edited February 17, 2014 by desertsessions
xUnknown Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 I just don't think it's right for me to text/call her since she's with someone new. That would be kind of disrespectful to that guy. You're right. She shouldn't be. You should mention that to her. "I don't think it is fair to your bf for you to be talking to me." It sounds like she still has feelings for you. If thats the case she should weigh her options, break up with her bf, be single for a while, see if she still is drawn to you. Then, maybe give it another go. 1
MoooOinkBaaa Posted February 18, 2014 Posted February 18, 2014 Sounds to me like she needs an ego boost, she wants to know how much she is worth to you that's all. 1
Author desertsessions Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 But this is from a relationship where she didn't feel worthy at all when we dated, and felt like i didn't even like her. It was a factor in the break-up. Would someone who wants an ego boost, really talking to me randomly throughout the year? We never even talked about anything that would give her an ego boost. I'm thinking things may not be going so swell in her current relationship?
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