wiwiwao Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 My ex and I have been "romantically" involved for 6,5 years now. For the past 3 years we've been breaking it off a million times. Everytime I wants to get back together. We never really get back together like a couple, we just are together. The thing between us is that his romanti feelilngs for me went away pretty early, like within a year after we fell in love. While I've been in love the whole time. He stuck out because of guilt and feeling responsibility and that he cared for me deeply. He saw me as his best friend. Our relationship initially started out as friendship. During these 6 years, we've been living together on/off due to studying. During these years, we've never dated other people or anything like that. Now, last year this time around, a new girl started at his work, different departement. First I found out about her because he mentioned her. Then I found out that he was infatuated with her! I found search logs on his computer where he searched for " infatuated with colleague at work". And that he's been checking out her facebook page like a dozen times a day, without being friends with her on FB! At the same time he suddenly told me that he didn't want to be initimate anymore! I've also read some of their chat logs from work where they had a flirtatious and jokingly tone. I'm a very jealous woman and that made me really angry and jealous ofc! I confronted him. He didn't deny that he thought she was interesting and nice looking. Downside was that she was engaged! For some reason I was heartbroken over this. Maybe because I wanted him to show me the same interest. I was really down for a week. Then I moved in with him for 9 months. For the whole 2013 they've become more acquainted. He added her on fb too before xmas. Btw, she got married in fall. Just last week we had another arguement over her. I read some chat logs which I didn't like. Still the flirtatious tone. Now they're sharing snaps everyday! And she is the most active one. Several snaps a day. And he has downloaded every snap save apps there is just to save her pictures! Can somebody tell me why a married women is sending snaps of her face to a guy? They've never been physical or anything and nothing in their chats have indicated any fault play. But it is really bugging me! He is still infatuated with her. Am I being silly? He says he is singel and can do whatever he wants, and that he is not doing anything wrong. I kind of agree, except for the part where he is flirting with a married women. He is very honest with me about everything in his life...he feelings...he thoughts..everything. He let me read the chat logs for a long time before he removed them. That's the thing..he is a really nice guy and I really like him. Some of my friends think that I love him...some think that I'm dependant on him. I'm not sure myself. A part of me can see a future with him...a part cannot. All I know is that I want to experience everything with him. And I wanna have his children. I really appreciate your thought, comments, experience or anything. Thank you!
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