Kitchen Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 So I made out with this chick I met at a club. I thought she was cool so I took her out once. Found out afterwards that she's the opposite of prude (I can't use the actual word here), so I want nothing serious with her ever. I would like a fling though. Problem is that I don't know if she's interested in that, because she did something so baffling that I am shocked and a bit hurt. It would much easier to post the whole story here, but if I do, people might find out who I am. So, is there anyone here who understands women really well, particularly of this type, and is interested in hearing my story? If so, let me know, so I will PM you. I'm looking for some advice on how to proceed. Thanks
FitChick Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Yeah, somebody PM him and then tell us who he really is. 1
GoreSP Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Oh you mean you think she is a slut because she had more sex than you think is acceptable for a 'lady'? 1
Author Kitchen Posted February 17, 2014 Author Posted February 17, 2014 Let me guess, after you made out with her and took her out she was no longer interested however she is overly promiscuous. Maybe she isn't that sexually attracted to you or you kiss like a camel ? Not quite. I can't pm you though because you have less than 50 posts.
Author Kitchen Posted February 17, 2014 Author Posted February 17, 2014 Oh you mean you think she is a slut because she had more sex than you think is acceptable for a 'lady'? Nope. But you could have pmed me out vice versa instead of making assumptions like a jerk.
Author Kitchen Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 Bump. Would anyone with experience mind helping me out with this? I am actually a bit hurt over it and not just looking to use her for sex. But my story is just too specific to post details here. Thanks.
Author Kitchen Posted February 19, 2014 Author Posted February 19, 2014 LEEVIT I've read and like a lot of your posts and you seem like a smart guy on this forum. I tried to message you but I think you are not accepting pm. Would you mind sending me a message so that I can tell you my story? I'd love your advice. Thanks
GoreSP Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Nope. But you could have pmed me out vice versa instead of making assumptions like a jerk. I didn't assume. A question mark means I'm asking a question.
BradJacobs Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 You are having trouble getting it on with a whore? Seems simple enough. Go for the sex.
d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 So you think this woman is a tramp & you don't want to date her but you are willing to use her. Nice. [not!] Now though, she did something else that makes you think she won't let you use her & you're mad but you want us to help you figure out how you can use her because you still think she's trash. If you want sex, hire a pro. If you want to date somebody do that. If you want to pass judgment on somebody, check that you don't live in a glass house before you throw stones. If you can't get over her choices, move on to somebody else & leave her alone. Whether you agree with or disapprove of her choices, she's still a person, & intentionally using her doesn't exactly make you a nice guy.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 LEEVIT I've read and like a lot of your posts and you seem like a smart guy on this forum. I tried to message you but I think you are not accepting pm. Would you mind sending me a message so that I can tell you my story? I'd love your advice. Thanks This site wont let me turn on private messages. But just post it up here and I'll be happy to try and help you. I do have plenty experience with "non-prude" women. 1
TheyCallMeOx Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Don't be afraid of rejection -- just look at it as a way to know. You won't know if she's interested in having sex with you if you don't bother to ask her. Otherwise, if you sit around and think about what she's going to say, you're not going to get anywhere. The longer you wait, the less likely she'll say "yes." Just ask her straight up, hey, I'm not interested in a relationship but would you be interested in having sex? The second woman I ended up having sex with, I knew her from high school. Met her again a year after graduation, added her on Facebook, and told her basically what I'm telling you...told her I wasn't interested in a relationship, wanted to have sex. We had sex.
Grumpybutfun Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 So I made out with this chick I met at a club. I thought she was cool so I took her out once. Found out afterwards that she's the opposite of prude (I can't use the actual word here), so I want nothing serious with her ever. I would like a fling though. Problem is that I don't know if she's interested in that, because she did something so baffling that I am shocked and a bit hurt. It would much easier to post the whole story here, but if I do, people might find out who I am. So, is there anyone here who understands women really well, particularly of this type, and is interested in hearing my story? If so, let me know, so I will PM you. I'm looking for some advice on how to proceed. Thanks What exactly is the opposite of prude? Tart? Jezebel? Floozy? What about this makes you any different than every other player who pre judges a person and wants sex from them instead of a relationship? No one is going to care who you are, this situation is so common. Grumps 2
Shepp Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I'm confused - you want a relationship with her or you don't?? 1
BradJacobs Posted February 19, 2014 Posted February 19, 2014 I would like a fling though. Problem is that I don't know if she's interested in that, because she did something so baffling that I am shocked and a bit hurt. You kissed this girl and went out one time. What could a stranger do that could possibly shock you and make you feel hurt? Call you gay? Did you text her pics of your twig and berries and she posted them on the intranets? I take back my previous advice about trying to sleep with her. Move on. 1
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