c0nfused88 Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 I am having a very difficult time tonight and have been for quite some time. I don't know what to say or do anymore. I really could use someone to talk to.
STM206 Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Let me say something to you. First off, if you seriously feel like hurting yourself (having a plan) you have to go into the ER or call a hotline. I know the feeling, look up suicidal ideation. They're intrusive thoughts that happen when you're feeling so low. Take a moment, deep breathe and tell yourself... Is your life worth ending over another? You have people, family, friends that would die if you left them. I went through these intrusive thoughts and went in. 1.) it was lack of sleep and 2.) we you're dealing with a traumatic experience. I can promise you, the light will shine again, the fog will slowly but surely lift. You may feel so low right now, but this isn't forever. YOU have every right to be in this world just like anyone else. Hurting yourself won't fix anything, it'll just leave those behind with heartache. Please reach out, you may feel alone but you are NOT alone, and you will find love again, but until then, find love for YOU. <3 I'm here if you need to talk some more.
Gemini x Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 You're not alone. I've had those same feelings, just a week ago, but I couldn't imagine putting my family and friends through the pain of losing me. We've all been through this. I'm going through it at this exact moment. I lost the man who meant the world to me after sharing 3 years together. He was my life, my world, my everything. I couldn't see my life without him and yet here I am - without him. I know you feel like the pain won't stop but it will. I had a good day 3 days ago where I felt like I was moving forward and today I've been a complete mess. I know, in the end, I'm going to be happier than I thought I was during the honeymoon phase of my past relationship. You have to take it day by day. One day will be good and the next will be bad. That's life, with or without a relationship. Once I'm back to my old happy self I'm still going to get upset about things and have a bad day here and there. Time is the only thing that's going to help us. You have a lot of people on here who have been where you are and they'll all tell you it gets better.
StringsAttached Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Hurting yourself will do absolutely nothing. It's only going to hurt your family and loved ones. Believe it or not I was in the exact same situation as you and I look back now and laugh at myself...how could I ever even think about hurting myself over someone like that. That's going to be you in a couple months. Believe it.
sportzhl24 Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Yeah man nobody is worth taking your life over. I came close during my last BU and now I feel like a fool that I even considered doing it. If you feel like hurting yourself, get exercise instead. Take boxing classes. Go for a long run. Go lift weights. Make yourself sore and tired so that you can relax and get some good sleep. Mark my words, you're gonna be fine.
iouaname Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 You have to be strong. You don't have another choice - you just need to be strong. You do whatever it takes to get yourself through this situation. If you feel like you're an immediate threat to yourself, you need to reach out to someone for help. Be strong, you owe it to yourself.
Recommended Posts