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Had to do it for the sake of me, to keep some self respect. Feel like crap though.

 

Anyone with similar stories?

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You were just friends.....how was it a break up?

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Well i told him we cant be friends anymore and no longer have contact

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Ok but why......need more details.

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Do you want more of a commitment from him? I've never done friends with benefits... so I don't know how the feeling is. I think ending any relationship of any substance is hard. Are you looking for a real committed relationship and he just wasn't the person you had in mind?

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I wanted more, and he was hesitant because im only here for another year or so and he didnt want a commitment knowing we wont have a future. I told him its way to early to think about the future, but he knows how close i am to my family and cant tear me away from them. And god fobid he "follows" me...with his man ego, he wont move for me. Or maybe im not worth him moving. Anyways, either way, he s just not that into me. I know it. I have to accept it. And im finally putting my foot down and respecting myself. Im just sad thats all.

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Duh! He's a FWB, not a boyfriend, not a romantic relationship. If you had both agreed to FWB, then you can't expect more. However, it's fine to decide that you want more and then end it when he doesn't feel the same.

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