purplesoccer34 Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Kind of a silly question, but I've been thinking about it a bit. Last week, I went to a party and for the first time ever, I drank. I went a little out of control and kept hugging everyone, especially one of my closest friends. Whenever he wasn't there, I kept asking where he was. If he wasn't around, I'd whine until he came back. Once he came into the room, I ran up to him, hugged him and didn't let him go for quite a while. He hugged me back and strangely even kissed me on the cheek but I could tell he was hesitant about it. I was surprised he did it because he's never had a girlfriend and has never kissed a girl. He didn't let go of me until I did. He was sober. I've only ever seen this guy as a friend and never thought about him in any other way, so it surprised me that I kept hugging him randomly. If he kissed me, is it possible that he sees me in any other way? I never before got even the slightest idea that he may like me, because he doesn't talk to me as much as he talks to his other female friends. He actually seems to be more affectionate with them than he is with me. So I guess I'm just wondering what it means if a friend of yours just randomly kisses you lol.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 Kind of a silly question, but I've been thinking about it a bit. Last week, I went to a party and for the first time ever, I drank. I went a little out of control and kept hugging everyone, especially one of my closest friends. Whenever he wasn't there, I kept asking where he was. If he wasn't around, I'd whine until he came back. Once he came into the room, I ran up to him, hugged him and didn't let him go for quite a while. He hugged me back and strangely even kissed me on the cheek but I could tell he was hesitant about it. I was surprised he did it because he's never had a girlfriend and has never kissed a girl. He didn't let go of me until I did. He was sober. I've only ever seen this guy as a friend and never thought about him in any other way, so it surprised me that I kept hugging him randomly. If he kissed me, is it possible that he sees me in any other way? I never before got even the slightest idea that he may like me, because he doesn't talk to me as much as he talks to his other female friends. He actually seems to be more affectionate with them than he is with me. So I guess I'm just wondering what it means if a friend of yours just randomly kisses you lol. He didn't randomly kiss you on the cheek. You said he's one of your closest friends, you were being a stage-5 clinger and he responded in kind after a while. Don't read too much into a kiss on the cheek. Also, don't get so drunk that you're become this annoying. I'd be super-irritated by that behaviour.
Author purplesoccer34 Posted February 17, 2014 Author Posted February 17, 2014 Yeah you're right. I didn't think I'd be that annoying lol. Never doing that again. But thanks for the response.
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