experiencethedevine Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Your friends are telling you to ditch your boyfriend because they SEE his behaviour as having a very negative impact on you. Likely also that they see 'changes' in you that indicate this boy is manipulating you in some way. His behaviour is arrogantly rude to say the least, no matter what other 'qualities' he may have that you seem to hold so dear. He is not going to change as long as you continue to allow him to wipe his feet on you. Do you want to end up being in a loveless relationship with someone who does not respect you enough to behave like a grown up? State your intentions and boundaries clearly and give him the opportunity to treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve or boot his ass out and find a few more frogs to kiss until you find a prince.................
MsOptimist Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 I was married to a guy like this for far too long - immature, non-communicative, rude, etc. GET OUT. He's acted like this every time you've had an argument and he won't change his approach. I wish I had the sense years ago to get out of my marriage - being truly honest with myself, I shouldn't have married him. The red flags were there but I kept ignoring them. Being single is not terrible. It'll be a life changing learning experience for you. It is far better to be single than to be in a dysfunctional relationship. 1
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