Purple_Haze Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 My guy friend expressed to me many times how much he loves me and always tried to kiss me etc. But I told him I wanted to be friends with him, and he was ok with that, but in kinda attitude voice he said "Did you friend zone me?" But he stilled talked to me. Then he started to not contact me, and my other guy friend Jake is a big mouth and is known for setting me up on dates with other guys, and with Valentines Day coming up I knew Jake was going to set me up with some horrible guy, lol! So I said to Jake that I am going out with someone and I am kinda dating a guy. That was a week before V-day I said that, and I know he told Mike, cause Jake is a big mouth. Well then a week later, 2 days before V-day Mike messaged my mom on Facebook saying "I knocked at your door at 6:15 I was in the area and figured I would stop by, since you guys wanted to see my daughter, the car was there, but I guess nobody was home?" My mom messaged him back saying "I am so sorry Mike! We would have loved to see your baby girl, but nobody was home at that time and the car was stuck in the driveway cause of the snow Sara(which is me) got it stuck and she left the house because she didn't want to hear her dad yell at her, lol! You should have texted or called Sara! Or you should have just came in, and somebody would have eventually been home" He didn't respond to the message, but he seen it, and he is the type that responds to everything. Then the next day on Facebook he said he's in a relationship with this girl, and it was out of nowhere! He never mentioned this girl or anything, and then he posted a pic of them kissing but then deleted it the next day. On V-day I posted pics of me getting ready for my date and he didn't like or comment on any of my pics. He posted earlier saying he was going out with a guy I kinda dated. This guy I kinda dated he always hated, lol! He always told me how much he doesn't like him but yet he's going out with him? And I found out later on in the night from a friend that he wasn't with him. It's just all very weird to me, and he is still not contacting me. He still says he's in a relationship with this girl, but yet they don't act like it at all, she is kinda unnoticed. He showed up to my door 4 days prior out of nowhere and he didn't even call or text me to tell me he was coming over or to see if I was home or anything. And he said he was "in the area" like wtf? He lives 15 mins away from me! He lives in the same area, lmao! So that doesn't make sense. I just want opinions and I am curious. He always is jealous of other guys, so I don't know if he is not contacting me cause he thinks I have a boyfriend? or if he is trying to mess with me? What does this sound like to you? To me it's just weird.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 To me it sounds as though you both like each other, but are playing games. Why don't you just admit it? How old are you both? The whole situation seems a little juvenile, to be honest.
Author Purple_Haze Posted February 17, 2014 Author Posted February 17, 2014 To me it's juvenile on his part. I am not playing games with him I kinda am dating a guy, but my guy friend Jake is always setting me up with guys and I don't want to be rude to Jake, so I said I was dating a guy and I had a Valentines Date etc. Just so Jake wouldn't set me up with some horrid guy, lol! Cause every guy he set me up with was a douchebag or just crazy. I am 21 and Mike is 27.
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