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Yes this will be a weird post but it's something I have been wondering. I was a virgin until I got with my current girlfriend(she has had sex before) We have had sex and everything but at times I feel very awkward asking her to have sex. When we are together it's easy to make a move but if I'm home and she's at her house how do I approach it?

 

I feel weird just texting her and saying "wanna have sex?" or saying "lets have sex"

 

lol this is so dumb but any help?

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You should never have to ask nor beg for "Feline"...period. It's not really a life essential

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You should never have to ask nor beg for "Feline"...period. It's not really a life essential

 

so just be like "hey come over ;)"

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any help?

 

Do you two sext?

 

If not, start.

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Why does it always have to be about sex? Why can't it just be about love why sex? Sex isn't the only thing in the world.

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Do you two sext?

 

If not, start.

 

This works great it really does sexting is a great way to communicate say something like....

 

Thinking about how sexy you were when we •fill in blank• wanna come over ?

 

Or really just plain ask her over and make a move.

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Why does it always have to be about sex? Why can't it just be about love why sex? Sex isn't the only thing in the world.

 

Because humans are sexual creatures. Don't ask OP be suggestive about it but at the same time keep conversations light and teasing and fun.

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hey, come over.

you wanna hang out tonight?

what are you up to?

are you free today/tonight/afternoon?

thinking of you, want to come over?

you busy right now, come over/can I come over?

 

 

stuff like that. you're putting it out there that you want to see her and we know what that means. you shouldn't have to ask outright though. that'd be weird.

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Don't you guys plan dates at all? :confused:

 

Just plan a date and let it lead naturally to sex. Unless all you want is sex with zero dates - which might be a bit tricky for a real relationship.

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You don't ask for sex. You seduce her.

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You dont ask, you hint, flirt, and escalate. Just kiss her and just move things forward. If shes in the mood, youll have sex. If shes not, you wont.

 

Simple.

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