Tapgirlhjh Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Okay, so about 3 weeks ago, this guy I had been dating for a few months broke up with me. We were always so happy together and I felt more loved in those months than I had in a year with my previous boyfriend. This guy really meant the world to me and I know I meant a lot to him. All my/our friends were so surprised when they heard about the break up. Now, half of them are betting on us getting back together while the other half are still totally lost in the weird break up. I'm a junior in high school and he's a sophomore, but we're only 5 months apart in age. I was his first girlfriend, so the beginning of our relationship was a little rusty, but in a cute, "you don't know what you're doing" way. We spent a lot of time together and probably moved a little faster than we should've, but it felt right. Like it was the choice that was supposed to be made, and we both agreed to it. So what I need help with: I don't know when I should try to get back together with him. A few days before he broke up with me, he said "if we ever broke up, we'd be that couple that got back without a doubt". And when he broke up with me, he said multiple times that it wasn't what he wanted, he still cared about me a lot, that he couldn't say that there wasnt a future for us, and that he didnt know if he wanted me to walk away or fight for him. I even told him that I wasn't going to just let the break up happen and he didn't argue to that, he just cried. There was obviously more to the conversation, but nothing that effects any of this. We haven't talked since. We gave our stuff back through a friend. He gave back my jacket, some photos I gave him and a letter i wrote him. It doesn't bother me that he gave all that back because it's his first break up and he probably thinks that's what you're supposed to do. I also don't mind that we haven't talked. There used to be multiple days while we were dating when we wouldn't talk because i know sometimes he just needs space, he's always been that way. His close friends and family have told me so many times that he's always been the kind that just needs time to cool off. I'm obviously going to try and work us out, but I don't know when or how. I have a ton of texts typed out, but how long do I wait?
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