Jenifferr Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] Okay here I go.. I have a boyfriend right now and we've been dating for about half a year. I really like him but we fight constantly and it's getting me really frustrated. I get double amount of stress than I did before I met him and a while ago I met this new guy. He's really sweet and I know he likes me because I found that out from someone else. But I don't know what to do. Do I just like him because I'm having problems in my relationship? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings either.. I don't know...
greenhorn Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 Hello, I can understand your position.Well i think that you are getting inclined to this new guy due to two reasons first you are dissatisfied with your present relationship and want to get solace and comfort and this new guy is like becoming a reason to end with your bf . Secondly you also know that this guy likes you. Well i am not the correct person to suggest you exactly what you should do but one request whatever you wish to do think for some time before you dump your bf.It hurts a lot to be a dumpee and i know the pain so please take your time and think before your dump him. bye
haywood Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 this is tough but i think you need some time to yourself. why are you in a relationship that you aren't happy about. if you want to make it better then talk to the guy, work stuff out. who knows, he might start caring about you. second of all, you do see this other guy as a way out. it's not good for you to be bouncing around like this. you're gonna lose yourself in the process. my advice, is either talk to your current boyfriend and tell him what you guys want or need to work on. or break up with him and don't get too attached to any guy too soon. yeah date if you want but take some time to understand what you want. you can't go around satifying everyone's needs unless yours are met too. good luck
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