runaway Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Went to a law school friend's party at a nightclub last Sat and was introduced to his classmate whom I found very attractive. We kinda hit it off instantly. Our conversation flowed nicely, and we danced for quite some time. After a while, she started kissing me, so I figured she found me attractive as well (my buddy said he had never seen her do anything like that in public). She gave me her number. My buddy told me she gets hit on all the time, so he told me to approach her in a way that most guys don't. I bucked the "3 day rule" because I know that's what every guy my age does. I decided to call her the day after I met her to set up a date. I did, but she didn't pick up. Later that night I texted her, "Hey M, how's it going? called you earlier today but maybe you didn't get the call?" I just left it at that. She never responded, so I asked my buddy to find out what she really thought of me (they are pretty close friends supposedly). He said, "She said she really liked you!! She's just been extremely busy and stressed out lately because of school (according to the friend, she does not seem to be in the best state of mind for dating). I do believe she will come around, so just be patient." Kinda put her in the back burner because I assumed nothing would happen, but this morning I noticed that she added me on Facebook (7 days after we met). I have not accepted that request yet because I don't know how I should play this. Help!
TheNewMe2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 She's interested. She may very well be interested. She also may feel awkward contacting you after several days from your last contact with her. I'd see this as an 'olive branch'. What do I know - I'm 41..so don't know what college kids think with facebook. But my wise old impression would be this is an opening for you to contact her - open the communication again. As for accepting her - how much facebooking stalking are you comfortable with (rather than letting her know you by going on a date). But it's definitely a message to talk with her.
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