bson1257 Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 I'm 28 and never been on a date. Basically, I'm like the 40 year old virgin when he said that he respects women so much he avoids them entirely. I feel like being kind and courteous is all I can do with women and trying to take it a step further is being disrespectful. How can I stop putting women on a pedestal?
Tayken Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Yet that's not actually true. She desires sex as much as a red blooded man, but for some women reason she finds it not proper to say that and instead says the opposite. This ....and the truth is in the pudding, when you end up getting down to business and they go all loco on you. You are left wondering...where is all this coming from? @OP.....I feel for you, but fortunately what you have is curable First get your appearance in check i.e. if you are the type that dresses like a slob, ditch it and dress your age (28), so business casual (trousers, dress shirts, dress shoes), and a hint of cologne. Am in my 40s but have always caught the attention of females either by my physique, dress or my scent....my dates always say "you smell nice" Then you have to get the courage to actually talk to these women....that is why a date packed with an activity / outdoors is always a good idea. You can talk about stuff going on around you, and at the same time talk about each other....eliminating any potential awkward moments that you will get if you were in a coffee shop You need to find that first day soonest before the Spring, and hopefully "get some", which will require you knowing what to do Good luck
Targetlock Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 yeah same problem here mate, i'm also 28 only ever been on one date and i don't like watching 40 year old virgin because i feel i'm looking at my future But we got to keep on trying, just got to get out more and try new options.
Beast_117 Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 I'm 22 in the same boat...sort of. As much I like the idea of having a gf I don't think I have the personality for it. I'm not even scared of rejection..I just don't have the character to keep them interested..I have nothing to talk about with women. If I ever see one noticing me I just stay away because I know she'll be disappointed within 1 minute of talking to me. And sensing that disappointment from them is a horrible feeling.
Omei Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 A guy with no confidence is a huge turn off. And trying to date one is horrible esp when they just talk about how worried they are about what I think of them bleh.
Scales Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 I'm being serious here, I don't really understand what this thread is about
organizedchaos Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 I'm being serious here, I don't really understand what this thread is about Me either. I don't understand how someone gets to this point.
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