kanga Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 should i ignore him for a few days or not? i have the infamous boy on my IM block list. check out my previous posts for the back story if you need to. i blocked him so that i wouldn't be tempted to talk to him if he contacted me via instant message. but i'm now having second thoughts. should i be playing the minimal and rare contact game at this stage? ugh. i really don't want to. but it could just be me caving in. anyone? advice?
undecided Posted January 19, 2005 Posted January 19, 2005 i think youre putting too much thought into this maybe hes shy. but if he doesnt seem shy then he probably isnt. oh and as far as effort its alot less intimidating to IM someone than call. but still i think youre putting too much thought into this. maybe he isnt into it.
Author kanga Posted January 20, 2005 Author Posted January 20, 2005 following my instinct as well as the advice of some of ya'll (tattoomytoe, thanks!), i said f'it and sent him a casual email. hey there, blah,blah, haven't heard from you in a few days. i sent it. 'nuff said. a few hours later, while eating a wonderful sushi dinner and talking ot a cool new boy, i see there's an incoming call -- suddenly, it's the boy. and so i go to the restaurant lobby. say hi, ask what's up, blah, blah. gotta go. talk to you later? tonight? maybe, he responds. luckily i go off to another social event and focus my energy on other people and places. i'm still totally coolio into him, but it feels good to not be obsessing about it. we'll see what happens later.
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