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I know this may seem like a silly question but right now I'm not thinking straight and need someone else to tell me what I can't tell myself.

 

My ex just texted me today out of no where. It's been about 6 months BU, good terms, but we didn't do NC right away. He texted me Merry Christmas and that was the last we really said to each other.

 

I'm sure he is and has be over me for awhile and it is just odd that of course yesterday I thought of him (Valentines day) but never would I have contacted him. Then today he texts me.. is it really that he is just bored? That seems like such a silly thing to do out of boredom when he probably hasn't thought about me in months. I'm sure he's been bored other times and found something else to do.

Just my rant if anyone has some positive or helpful words or thoughts that would be nice. :bunny:

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What exactly did the text say and did you text back?

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It just said "Hiii" nothing of value but I did say Hi back. Even if I'm not 100% over him, I know I'm ok with out him and if he wants to talk he can. He of course asked hows life and stuff and I just gave short answers like life is good. I never gave any detail to things or asked him any questions. I was busy so I responded whenever I was available, and he still texted back. Eventually I stopped replying.

 

I know this doesn't mean he wants to get back together, and neither do I.

I just find it weird that he would text me now, and to add, he is the worst at texting he's never liked it much.

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He is simply poking at you, lurking around if you will. I wouldn't read into it at all. If you have replied, it's ok don't beat yourself over it reset the clock and continue to propel yourself forward as you are that matters from this point forward.

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He is simply poking at you, lurking around if you will. I wouldn't read into it at all. If you have replied, it's ok don't beat yourself over it reset the clock and continue to propel yourself forward as you are that matters from this point forward.

 

I really do read into things a lot so you're right it's better to just let this be! There's just been such a gap between the last time we had contact idk why he'd even think to message me right now. And I know the conversation would last a day then he'd stop replying anyways just to mess with me or something. Oh well just a hiccup in the road I guess, nothing I can't move past!

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Recently I feel like my ex has been contacting me a lot (twice in 2 weeks).. Is he really just that bored? He was with his guy friends all weekend and was snap chatting me. Of course I don't respond, it wasn't personal. We're on good terms but we don't normally communicate.

The other week he texted me just poking around I assume. Seeing how I was. Then today he sent more snap chats later (the usually method of our communication, texting was out of the ordinary for him). Yes there was alcohol involved today I'm sure, but if you're with your friends having a good time as so clearly shown by your snap chats, why are you sending me videos saying you really miss me and wish I was there and so on?!

I know I'm here ranting so it must get to me a little but it's just confusing me more than anything.

Does this solely mean he is just bored or hasn't found anyone else yet? Or could he still have some feelings there? Regardless it doesn't change anything I would just like someone else's thoughts and felt the need to rant!

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Just games.

 

Don't pay attention to ANYTHING he does unless he says "I made a mistake. I want you back".

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So this in no way means he could still have feelings for me?

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it could possibly mean he has feelings for you, but its not saying lets work things out or I want you back. why people tell you to ignore this is so you don't become a doormat for your ex.

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