Drey4211 Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 If you love her give her what she wants. Don't do it for anyone else but her. There are so many girls out there but love isn't a word. It's a feeling. It won't change with time. Learn to heal on your own and be happy with yourself. She fell in love with you because that's what she thought you did. If you fail swallow your pride and start again. Be better for her and if it's not her you end up with, as long as she's safe and comfortable, it shouldn't matter. No matter how much you want her, you don't deserve her unless you know she deserved better. Even if you think she's not all the way there, you've seen her real side and if she farted in your presence, that's a give away! Let her go. Let her be happy and if she comes back after she's experienced life, take her and hold her for hours. And make it last years.
Mr me to Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 If you love her give her what she wants. Don't do it for anyone else but her. There are so many girls out there but love isn't a word. It's a feeling. It won't change with time. Learn to heal on your own and be happy with yourself. She fell in love with you because that's what she thought you did. If you fail swallow your pride and start again. Be better for her and if it's not her you end up with, as long as she's safe and comfortable, it shouldn't matter. No matter how much you want her, you don't deserve her unless you know she deserved better. Even if you think she's not all the way there, you've seen her real side and if she farted in your presence, that's a give away! Let her go. Let her be happy and if she comes back after she's experienced life, take her and hold her for hours. And make it last years. I disagree. Should of read... If you love yourself, do what you want for you. Don't do it for anyone else but yourself. Be better for you and if you decide she deserves your love let her prove it. If not hold out for someone who does. 1
melell Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 If you love her give her what she wants. Don't do it for anyone else but her. There are so many girls out there but love isn't a word. It's a feeling. It won't change with time. Learn to heal on your own and be happy with yourself. She fell in love with you because that's what she thought you did. If you fail swallow your pride and start again. Be better for her and if it's not her you end up with, as long as she's safe and comfortable, it shouldn't matter. No matter how much you want her, you don't deserve her unless you know she deserved better. Even if you think she's not all the way there, you've seen her real side and if she farted in your presence, that's a give away! Let her go. Let her be happy and if she comes back after she's experienced life, take her and hold her for hours. And make it last years. I also disagree. This all seems very unbalanced to me. Self respect is so important, although being a nice person is important, it should never be at ones own personal detriment-mentality/perspective stemming from the existence of one girl doesn't seem too self respecting to me. There are probably like 20 'she' words in the above advice... there are 3.5ish billion 'shes' on the planet, a little silly to define your actions based on only one of them. I'd be more agreeable with your advice if you replaced 'she' with 'females' in general, and if the tone of it all related to trying to bang. even as a female I would find those changes more reasonable. 1
pickflicker Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 If you love her, be a doormat? *buzzer* wrong. You cannot love someone until you love yourself. Loving yourself is not being her bitch, it's answering to yourself first. Oh, and take them back after they dumped you? Whatever for?! 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 If you love her give her what she wants. Don't dopretty mr anyone else but her. There are so many girls out there but love isn't a word. It's a feeling. It won't change with time. Learn to heal on your own and be happy with yourself. She fell in love with you because that's what she thought you did. If you fail swallow your pride and start again. Be better for her and if it's not her you end up with, as long as she's safe and comfortable, it shouldn't matter. No matter how much you want her, you don't deserve her unless you know she deserved better. Even if you think she's not all the way there, you've seen her real side and if she farted in your presence, that's a give away! Let her go. Let her be happy and if she comes back after she's experienced life, take her and hold her for hours. And make it last years. Nah dude I agree with everyone else man. You got this all wrong. You are pretty much saying"be at her call no matter what happened." I get where you are trying to come from....but I disagree.
WYSWYG Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Learning to love YOURSELF is the greatest love of all... I will not be a doormat of the next one..
Author Drey4211 Posted February 16, 2014 Author Posted February 16, 2014 Yesterday was one of those days. I won't be anyone's doormat or whatever you call that. There is a little bit of ego going on here though I feel. It takes two to tango and I've tangoed a few times and with the same results. She was the only one that made me want to evaluate what was wrong. I'm putting my ego away till I can say I've changed.
iPhone Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 I thought this topic was going to say "If you love her" "Let her go" That dang song comes on 10 times a day.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Yesterday was one of those days. I won't be anyone's doormat or peopleer you call that. There is a little bit of ego going on here though I feel. It takes two to tango and I've tangoed a few times and with the same results. She was the only one that made me want to evaluate what was wrong. I'm putting my ego away till I can say I've changed. I don't think there is anything wrong with evaluating yourself after a BU. I think most people do. With that said, I think this looks like an ego thing. I think a LOT of actual breakups are ego related...or at least what Ive seen on this site. Just keep moving forward. It will get there in due time.
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