latexyankee Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 I know this will mostly depend on one's strength, but I'd like some opinions or maybe even personal experiences. This is fresh as in a week fresh but I have to start looking at the future. I am the one in pain, and alot of the breakup is my fault. I understand and am beginning to find help for the way I act or the way I take things for granted. That being said, she is at a friends apt and is getting ready to sign a lease after moving out of my place. I don't want to be here anymore for several reasons. Number 1 is the rent, 2 would be recent memories and 3 I need a fresh start. The only place nearby that actually makes sense for me is where shes at. Its a -300 hit off my rent and the places aren't really that bad for what they ask. Yea they're small but I know regardless of where I go I'm going to have to downsize. This will be in aprox 2 months from now. I run the risk of seeing her or her car or her child or whatever, it is inevitable. But it really does make sense atm for me and my daughter. I am worried that her kid will see mine at the pool or something and I dunno....but I need to save money and this is the best option. The only silver lining is that one of my best friends and his girl and kid also live there so I could always hang at their place for a bit or he would come over if I'm feeling down or need company. I just wonder if I'd be setting myself up for failure.
Mr Scorpio Posted February 17, 2014 Posted February 17, 2014 The only silver lining is that one of my best friends and his girl and kid also live there so I could always hang at their place for a bit or he would come over if I'm feeling down or need company. I just wonder if I'd be setting myself up for failure. What do you consider failure in this situation?
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