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Breakup After 3 months

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Me and my girlfriend broke up last Sunday. After dating for 3 months. She said she had stopped liking me and couldn't get herself to love me anymore. she said she didn't want to be in a unhappy relationship, and had been planning to breakup. And I have realized why. Because of all of the arguing,bad things i said and just kinda being flakey, I didn't show how much I cared enough. I have deep regret for how stupid I feel messing it up, not realizing how much I hurt her. I still love her and want her back. But I think she might have a rebound. This guy told her a few days before we broke up that he liked her. And bam a few days later she broke up. I noticed her being alot more close to him at school. One of her friends told her how apparently when I made her sad, this guy would be the only one who would always be there to talk to her. I had a huge breakdown when we broke up and talked to her for a few days after. I even tried the letter thing saying I was deeply sorry, asking to fix things. Which I realized now was just making me look desperate. Yesterday I sent her a message apologizing for getting so upset and stuff, then i asked if we could still be friends. And she said yes. This was yesterday and I haven't talked to her since. So anyways how should I try to get her back? Wait a week or two? keep talking to her now? I am just lost.

 

 

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Our relationship wasn't that serious, it was still developing but it was still love

 

In the first few days when i asked why she didn't want to fix things. She said that the relationship was too "broken" to fix. I was really probably being clingy and annoying during that time aswell just because i was a mess. Also Something else she said was i would find a new girlfriend better than her. As far as being more in depth after the NC period, what should I do when I start talking to her again.

 

 

 

During the NC period. What should I do if she texts me or says something at school. Also what if she thinks I don't care anymore/moved on, and just moves on with this other guy?

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