Trnamakesnse Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 I once had a female friend who says she has never had feelings for me try to initiate phone sex with me. She tried for maybe a good half hour before giving up it was a long call. Claimed she was drunk, we've been drunk together many many times any she's never done anything like this. I've blacked out and only given women compliments. So I was wondering what women think of it?
preraph Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Sounds like she went from 1 to 60 and whether it's because she was drunk or just doesn't have good control of herself or has bad judgment, it's all the same. A bit weird to call up a friend and start talking dirty without anything leading up to it. If she's doing this to you, think how many guys she's sending nudies to online. I'd steer clear.
Keenly Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Yeah that's just weird and that would make me uncomfortable.
potsticker Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 she was horny. it happens? boundaries. Gotem? on the OP, looks like she was looking for an ego booster? dunno man
whichwayisup Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 I once had a female friend who says she has never had feelings for me try to initiate phone sex with me. She tried for maybe a good half hour before giving up it was a long call. Claimed she was drunk, we've been drunk together many many times any she's never done anything like this. I've blacked out and only given women compliments. So I was wondering what women think of it? She probably does have feelings for you. Women who have men as real platonic friends, don't think of them in a sexual way, let alone cross lines and get drunk then do sexting/flirting.
Author Trnamakesnse Posted February 17, 2014 Author Posted February 17, 2014 Bah. Doesn't matter what she was doing or why. We talked everyday for three years and were good friends. It was a bad decision on her part, even drunk I never break my rules like that and tbh I liked her and I blacked out never even tried to do anything. I can't see myself really understanding people who would do this. I don't fool around with people in a relationship or people I'm not in a relationship with. It was a bad call and being drunk is no excuse, if I can maintain proper boundaries when I'm drunk off my seat I expect others to as well.
Author Trnamakesnse Posted February 20, 2014 Author Posted February 20, 2014 So I think I finally figured things out. I asked if i was friendzoned and all she would say is maybe. She didn't like the negative meanings she said. So i've been trying to figure out if there are any other than not dating and there are not. I freaked out when she told me about bf. my problem is low self esteem i take everything super hard way too hard tbh. She lives pretty far away and dating isn't an option with her so far off. She always said how much she cared about me. We were friends for three years she knew i liked her but wouldn't say that after she got a bf which is when i stupidly asked. She's a great person really, i may never get her back as a friend bc of how i treated her but i know now why i act like that. Why i say so much and get so angry and hurt. Self esteem has been low a long long time. I just needed to trust my friends better i only pick good ones. Hope she forgives me. If not it's cool i don't "need" her i want her. I don't need anyone but myself, that's what i've been failing to understand.
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