Valentines Day when you know they're with someone else

[wistfulgirl]

Not after any sympathy or advice even...just hard knowing the person you want to forget and are still in love with (as much as you don't want to be) has a new partner and you KNOW they are celebrating, treating and loved up with someone else. F*ckin painful :-( xxx

[Tripz]

Yeah, that can be tough. But it isn't just today, it's everyday that you know they are together. What has been bugging me lately is the feeling that since they know I know all about them, they are "getting over". They've now been seen together in many more public places than when they were still being secretive about it. Had I never come forward about finding out about the affair and just kicked her ass out of the house, I probably wouldn't have also told any of my friends about her affair either. Earlier today, a buddy of mine, whom I told about her affair and knows who her lover is, saw her lover buying flowers. At least I get the joy of knowing she hates those kind and her new man doesn't even have a clue! Might be a better Valentine's Day than I thought after all. Carnations? Really? What a cheap ass...Oh, and they will make her allergies and sinus problem act up. Have fun trying to get her to enjoy your bedtime activities tonight. I'm almost certain he's going to get the "Sorry, honey, not tonight, my head hurts". LOL

[wistfulgirl]

Not sure how much people change, even though they may really want to, w are still who we are and all have our demons. Maybe they have found the right one for them, or maybe are just in the "honeymoon period" as they were one time with us and the same issues will spring up over time.

 

Still painful though, and as much as I really want him to be happy I'm just gutted I'm no longer the one that makes him feel that way xx

[Tripz]

Yeah, Wistful, I feel exactly the same way. Hard to imagine our former SO's looking into the eyes of another and feeling the love they once had for us.