Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 why? No point in trying to take a 10 seriously and get hurt Stero types!!!! I have a friend who is a supermodel, literally. She is lovely and she wants a serious relationship with a man. She wants a family one day with a decent, nice guy. She can afford to only date men she is attracted to, that is the key here. Come on, some perfectly stunning people can also be lovely. That young 18 year old girl I speak of would never string a guy along or hurt anyone. She wouldn't hurt a fly, she is lovely.
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 Stero types!!!! I have a friend who is a supermodel, literally. She is lovely and she wants a serious relationship with a man. She wants a family one day with a decent, nice guy. She can afford to only date men she is attracted to, that is the key here. Come on, some perfectly stunning people can also be lovely. That young 18 year old girl I speak of would never string a guy along or hurt anyone. She wouldn't hurt a fly, she is lovely. super model eh? sounds like my type.. lemme holler at her then...
peruano99 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Are you even approaching these 10/10 women?
Teddius Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Attractive men attract attractive women fairly easy, and vice versa. If physically attracting a hot women proves to be difficult for you, then in all likelihood you are not as attractive as you think.
Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 super model eh? sounds like my type.. lemme holler at her then... LOL..... Come on, try to grow up a bit. A normal, regular looking woman can turn into a 10. It is not common to find true love as it is, you are really making it near impossible for yourself to find true love if you limit yourself to only 10's. Good God you are fussy, the 9/10 rich accounts exec I dated casually is with a girl who is not better looking than me, just a normal cute girl with a cheeky smile; to him, she is perfect. He is totally in love with her. In his words: when I first went on a tour in Europe, I went for the hottest girls first for a hook up. Then I went for my girlfriend, who was super cute and had a wicked smile. I knew we had something. See what I mean? his normal sized, non thin but cute looking partner IS just as attractive to him as those "hotter" girls NOW, but initially sure, the hotter girls appeared more attractive. If you fall for a girl on a deeper level, a plain Jane can become totally gorgeous to you.
peruano99 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 > Says he has a problem. > Gets advice on how to fix the problem. > Completely disregards advice. You don't want to change OP...
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 Attractive men attract attractive women fairly easy, and vice versa. If physically attracting a hot women proves to be difficult for you, then in all likelihood you are not as attractive as you think. it's not difficult, i've had my share of attractive women, i'm just saying some are hard to get.
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 LOL..... Come on, try to grow up a bit. A normal, regular looking woman can turn into a 10. It is not common to find true love as it is, you are really making it near impossible for yourself to find true love if you limit yourself to only 10's. Good God you are fussy, the 9/10 rich accounts exec I dated casually is with a girl who is not better looking than me, just a normal cute girl with a cheeky smile; to him, she is perfect. He is totally in love with her. In his words: when I first went on a tour in Europe, I went for the hottest girls first for a hook up. Then I went for my girlfriend, who was super cute and had a wicked smile. I knew we had something. See what I mean? his normal sized, non thin but cute looking partner IS just as attractive to him as those "hotter" girls NOW, but initially sure, the hotter girls appeared more attractive. If you fall for a girl on a deeper level, a plain Jane can become totally gorgeous to you. i'll give it a try, 6 is my limit. 1-5 is unacceptable. then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everybody has their own tastes and judgement.
Stay_Gold Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 (edited) First of all...you have to "DEFINE" HOT. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whats hot to me...might not be hot to you. Whats hot to you...might not be hot to me. I believe...when it comes to BEAUTY...everyone is partially endowed to their own view as to what is beautiful and there no right or wrongs. There is also no, "Im hotter/smarter/better so therefore I am correct" and vice versa. Sometimes...you just have to accept things for what they are and try to see many view points and try to understand all those view points and see how they affect your view point, your character, your morals and values. I believe that you should follow your heart, instincts and intuition and than see where it takes you. PEACE BRAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! Edited February 15, 2014 by Stay_Gold
Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 i'll give it a try, 6 is my limit. 1-5 is unacceptable. then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everybody has their own tastes and judgement. Well I'm about a 6 or 7 and I've had a few guys that thought I was very attractive. They really didn't think they were settling for a girl who was "nothing special to look at" yet had a "nice personality". These guys thought I was gorgeous. I believe you too, can find fairly average woman like myself to be very attractive if you open yourself up to the possibility. I mean, these guys were very attracted to me. They weren't desperate or starved of options. Not only 10s will get your heart racing. There are average/cute 7s or maybe even 6s who gou would fall head over heels for if you stopped having such ridiculous expectations as to what constitutes as beautiful.
jcrew11 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 hi everyone. i've recently come out of a bad breakup from my ex. since then there has been a few girls who have wanted to date me. the problem is that i'm not physically attracted to them. my ex was a 10, and i can't see myself "downgrading" on looks. i'm not going to lie i want to date hot girls, but they're hard to get, because they know they can have anybody. it always seems all the unattractive girls want to chase me, and i play hard to get... its like a taste of my own medicine. should i go for what i want? or should i give the girls i don't want a try? You can date some slumpbusters if you are desperate. If you can get models, then there is no reason not to date them. Closing is mostly about self-confidence. Some not-hot women have better personalities and might be more enjoyable to be around. It depends on the each girl. 1
Eivuwan Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 I don't understand the point of this post. OP, why would you want to "lower your standards?" Seems like you are just arguing about why you shouldn't. 2
ascendotum Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 *trophy wife. alright, to tell the truth the women i've dated in the past were import models & video vixens. its all i know. i just can see myself following that up with any ol plain jane. my ego will get hurt. that's my problem. If you have been with 'import models & video vixens' then that should have satisfied your ego to a big extent. You've been there, know you can do it, so it should not be such a overwhelming need to keep your ego satisfied at that level. You can do it again, it doesn't mean you cant enjoy some variety in the meantime, or give a few less than 10, down to earth girls who think you're 'omg so amazzzzzing' some good memories and you can enjoy some fun times with them still. You do seem to come off more worried about your image to others in terms of who you have hanging off your arm. At least your upfront about being shallow. Its not a problem unless you can't get what you want (so its a not easy, that's life), or you find 10/10 girls unsatisfying in terms of totally meeting your needs (not talking just sex).
peruano99 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Well I'm about a 6 or 7 and I've had a few guys that thought I was very attractive. They really didn't think they were settling for a girl who was "nothing special to look at" yet had a "nice personality". These guys thought I was gorgeous. I believe you too, can find fairly average woman like myself to be very attractive if you open yourself up to the possibility. I mean, these guys were very attracted to me. They weren't desperate or starved of options. Not only 10s will get your heart racing. There are average/cute 7s or maybe even 6s who gou would fall head over heels for if you stopped having such ridiculous expectations as to what constitutes as beautiful. True, but the OP is most likely a troll. This thread is basically him bragging saying how he won't take any average girl because he deserves gorgeous women because he himself is such a player.
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 True, but the OP is most likely a troll. This thread is basically him bragging saying how he won't take any average girl because he deserves gorgeous women because he himself is such a player. don't be jelly bro.
peruano99 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 >So what's the point of this thread again? If you feel good looking then approach these women and that's that...if they reject you, get over it, and on to the next one.
NYSean Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 Dude, it's a picture of Danny Tanner with a narcissist attitude...how do you NOT pick up on the fact that it's trolling. HAHAHA
Author Corduroy Posted February 16, 2014 Author Posted February 16, 2014 Dude, it's a picture of Danny Tanner with a narcissist attitude...how do you NOT pick up on the fact that it's trolling. HAHAHA dude, i'm not trolling. i changed my pic so ppl i know don't find out i'm posting on here.
Eivuwan Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 dude, i'm not trolling. i changed my pic so ppl i know don't find out i'm posting on here. I don't see you making much use of this thread.
barbossa Posted February 16, 2014 Posted February 16, 2014 Well did you change your picture yet? If you are as hot as people say you are you would flaunt it , even here. you wouldn't put up picture of Danny from full house You think hot "10" girls have issues posting their pictures? everyone likes hot girls but if you can't get them well what the point in trying and failing?
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