Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 I am on your side, I want to date attractive women too oh lol. i misread your post, i thought you were saying i was unattractive like them.
isisisweeping Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 You aren't as hot as you think. But that's just me. Obviously, everyone has different views. The picture/post combination makes me wonder if this post is sincere. I'm not sure I'm buying it. If it IS real somehow, I guess, be as shallow as you want to be. Everyone is entitled to their own standards, as long as they're worth being alone not to have it met.
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 You don't have a problem necessarily. You just have really high standards. When it comes to meeting a life term partner, that is totally okay. But you have to be willing to wait and find patience. If not, then you might have to lower your standards and make exceptions. You look young so give it time. 3
Carwhisperer Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 I can relate. I am way too hung up on looks myself. I was married to a 10 for 16 years. I thought there was something better out there but I was wrong. Since then I have been in quite a few relationships lasting from a few weeks to 6 months. The 6 month one was a really cool girl but not quite hot enough. I felt terrible for being that way. The most recent girl was a 9.5 but she decided things were not working out for her so she dumped me. That has been a tough one but I'm getting over it! I wish I could just like what's on the inside. One thing I think I have noticed, however, is that most females are sweethearts. It seems like the biggest difference between them are things like their appearance, how educated they are and how many kids they have. And, whether they are attracted to me of course. haha I'm pretty sure I'm not the least bit latent or anything but I'll say this. You look OK in your picture but I think you would look a lot better if you smile. The frown makes you look pretty lame. 1
BradJacobs Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 hi everyone. i've recently come out of a bad breakup from my ex. since then there has been a few girls who have wanted to date me. the problem is that i'm not physically attracted to them. my ex was a 10, and i can't see myself "downgrading" on looks. i'm not going to lie i want to date hot girls, but they're hard to get, because they know they can have anybody. it always seems all the unattractive girls want to chase me, and i play hard to get... its like a taste of my own medicine. should i go for what i want? or should i give the girls i don't want a try? One ex in your history that's a 10 makes you lucky but not entitled. Many 10s would make it a streak or a pattern. So you can approach it by dating more homely women and then upgrading when you have the opportunity or hold out for the next hot girl. 2
Barbarossa Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 From my experiences 10s are not nearly as fun as the 6 or 7. Unreasonably attractive women usually have their head inflated by all the attention they are bombarded with. This causes you to be completely expendable to them and they will typically hold you to rediculous standards. If I were you I would get off your high horse and give other women a shot. 2
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 I can relate. I am way too hung up on looks myself. I was married to a 10 for 16 years. I thought there was something better out there but I was wrong. Since then I have been in quite a few relationships lasting from a few weeks to 6 months. The 6 month one was a really cool girl but not quite hot enough. I felt terrible for being that way. The most recent girl was a 9.5 but she decided things were not working out for her so she dumped me. That has been a tough one but I'm getting over it! I wish I could just like what's on the inside. One thing I think I have noticed, however, is that most females are sweethearts. It seems like the biggest difference between them are things like their appearance, how educated they are and how many kids they have. And, whether they are attracted to me of course. haha I'm pretty sure I'm not the least bit latent or anything but I'll say this. You look OK in your picture but I think you would look a lot better if you smile. The frown makes you look pretty lame. lol, that was when i was heartbroken from my ex. all my pictures of me smiling have my ex in them. i haven't had a reason to smile yet.
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 From my experiences 10s are not nearly as fun as the 6 or 7. Unreasonably attractive women usually have their head inflated by all the attention they are bombarded with. This causes you to be completely expendable to them and they will typically hold you to rediculous standards. If I were you I would get off your high horse and give other women a shot. you know what, i don't even know if my ex was a "10." you guys wanna judge her for yourselves?
MrRightNow Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 From my experiences 10s are not nearly as fun as the 6 or 7. Unreasonably attractive women usually have their head inflated by all the attention they are bombarded with. This causes you to be completely expendable to them and they will typically hold you to rediculous standards. If I were you I would get off your high horse and give other women a shot. Yup, that's been my experience. It's nearly impossible to keep a gorgeous woman happy in the long run. I think the ideal woman is a 7 or 8 with a great personality (sweet,caring,feminine). 2
WP4046 Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Yup, that's been my experience. It's nearly impossible to keep a gorgeous woman happy in the long run. I think the ideal woman is a 7 or 8 with a great personality (sweet,caring,feminine). Women who are 10's are the ones you play with not date
MrRightNow Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Women who are 10's are the ones you play with not date Agreed. I wish I had realized this at a younger age!
isisisweeping Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 Women who are 10's are the ones you play with not date That just seems so wrong.
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 The picture/post combination makes me wonder if this post is sincere. I'm not sure I'm buying it. If it IS real somehow, I guess, be as shallow as you want to be. Everyone is entitled to their own standards, as long as they're worth being alone not to have it met. why is it hard to believe my story or even my picture??
isisisweeping Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 why is it hard to believe my story or even my picture?? Look, I don't want to be mean at all. From your picture which may not even :be a good picture, you are not especially good looking. You don't look like going below a 10 would be dating down. I'm not trying to insult you if this is all legit. Different strokes. I'm not saying you are bad looking, either. Sorry if I phrased all that poorly. 1
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 Look, I don't want to be mean at all. From your picture which may not even :be a good picture, you are not especially good looking. You don't look like going below a 10 would be dating down. I'm not trying to insult you if this is all legit. Different strokes. I'm not saying you are bad looking, either. Sorry if I phrased all that poorly. what is this? the hot or not app? i didn't come here for ppl to judge me, i came here because i want my girl to 10.
Leigh 87 Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 never said i was, just what i've been told. btw, it's my smile that melts the girls hearts. ps. you're pretty cute Um, I have a smile that's as nice as yours. I have full lips and very nice teeth. It's in my album on here. I'm stil not one of the "beautiful" girls. Having a nice smile doesn't make you hot. I have a great smile and I'm a solid 6 but with a great shaped body. As a result of my down to earth and non inflated ego, I tend to have an ample supply of men wanting to date me.... as I go for men in my league.
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 what is this? the hot or not app? i didn't come here for ppl to judge me, i came here because i want my girl to 10. Ugh actually you put up the picture for us to judge you....
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 Ugh actually you put up the picture for us to judge you.... you were curious what i looked like, so i put it up.
isisisweeping Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 what is this? the hot or not app? i didn't come here for ppl to judge me, i came here because i want my girl to 10. It is valid from the point that the more attractive a person must be than you, the harder it will be to find many options. If you aren't wanting to sacrifice other things, too, it might be more time single. The advice stands, however: if that is your only interest, hold out until a matching person comes along or doesn't, no point in dating a person who you don't really feel measures up. That's just wasting time, and using them.
Leigh 87 Posted February 14, 2014 Posted February 14, 2014 From my experiences 10s are not nearly as fun as the 6 or 7. Unreasonably attractive women usually have their head inflated by all the attention they are bombarded with. This causes you to be completely expendable to them and they will typically hold you to rediculous standards. If I were you I would get off your high horse and give other women a shot. I'm friends with a German super model. She's 18 and she goes to all the biggest fashion weeks to walk the runways of too designer's. Shes lovely. Great personality! My other friend is a model. She's a podiatrist and has a funny and awesome personality. She still can't find boyfriends and was lied to and cheated on my all her previous men. My good female friend could be a model but she doesn't like the idea of her looks being tue center of attention. She's down to earth, knows she's beautiful, and has a great personality.*Great fun! !!!
Author Corduroy Posted February 14, 2014 Author Posted February 14, 2014 It is valid from the point that the more attractive a person must be than you, the harder it will be to find many options. If you aren't wanting to sacrifice other things, too, it might be more time single. The advice stands, however: if that is your only interest, hold out until a matching person comes along or doesn't, no point in dating a person who you don't really feel measures up. That's just wasting time, and using them. yeah, i don't want to lead these girls on. i should stay single and shop around. who knows maybe, a girl with the whole package will come along soon.
Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 yeah, i don't want to lead these girls on. i should stay single and shop around. who knows maybe, a girl with the whole package will come along soon. Looks are subjective though. My boyfriend sees me as the most beautiful woman in the world. He really does. He tells me often. The guy before him who was a fwb but fell crazy in love with me; he thought I was the mlst beautiful woman in the world to him. I also dated a 9 once. He though I was really hot and beautiful. I always have male friends who think I'm very good looking and in turn, developed huge crushes on me. Some me think I'm prettier than my model friend. She is thinner than me with a smaller waist plus she has a tiny and straight nose.. where as my nose isn't small or straight. That DOESNT mean I AM actually good looking. Looks are SUBJECTIVE. I have merely a small amount of people who think I'm beautiful. Please don't take much stock in what people say when it comes to your looks. Don't take a few people calling you hot as some sort of sign that you should aim for strictly 10s. And remember, average cute girls like me find guys who think we are 8s or 9s out of ten. Looks are definitely subjective. You may have hot chemistry with a cute 6 or 7 and soon see her as totally gorgeous. Guys have done this to me!!! They get to know me and I'm no longer a 6 to them.
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 Looks are subjective though. My boyfriend sees me as the most beautiful woman in the world. He really does. He tells me often. The guy before him who was a fwb but fell crazy in love with me; he thought I was the mlst beautiful woman in the world to him. I also dated a 9 once. He though I was really hot and beautiful. I always have male friends who think I'm very good looking and in turn, developed huge crushes on me. Some me think I'm prettier than my model friend. She is thinner than me with a smaller waist plus she has a tiny and straight nose.. where as my nose isn't small or straight. That DOESNT mean I AM actually good looking. Looks are SUBJECTIVE. I have merely a small amount of people who think I'm beautiful. Please don't take much stock in what people say when it comes to your looks. Don't take a few people calling you hot as some sort of sign that you should aim for strictly 10s. And remember, average cute girls like me find guys who think we are 8s or 9s out of ten. Looks are definitely subjective. You may have hot chemistry with a cute 6 or 7 and soon see her as totally gorgeous. Guys have done this to me!!! They get to know me and I'm no longer a 6 to them. well if its subjective, then so be it. i'd rather go out with scarlett johansson than rachel dratch any day. lol. thats just me.
Author Corduroy Posted February 15, 2014 Author Posted February 15, 2014 People that act like that often dont find love. And they end up marrying for the looks not for love. And that marriage will not stand. Beside you see a " 10" did not work for you. so why keep chasing it"? because i don't want to lower my standards. don't get me wrong, my ex had brains, looks, great personality and was a great lover... i did stupid things on my part and hurt her, thats why it didn't work out.
Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2014 Posted February 15, 2014 well if its subjective, then so be it. i'd rather go out with scarlett johansson than rachel dratch any day. lol. thats just me. See. A lot of men I know don't find Scarlet to be beautiful. Her extreme beauty is too much for some men ..she looks weird or alien like to them.. they are more into more normal looking 8's who have those cute small noses, a pretty face and a petite figure. .. See what I mean? You're ruling plenty of hot girls out because they are not Scarlet or Angelina Jolie or Halle Berry. You are going for extreme looks: huge lips, perfect teeth, tiny noses as well as a killer knockout hour glass figure that's still slender (slim with killer curves is RARE). Why not try to find good sexual chemistry with a nice fun, educate girl who has good values and has a cute face with a slender figure? Why do you need more?????
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