highclaw2003 Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 My girlfriend and I got together originally because she had fallen in love in love with me and her ex had always made her unhappy. He's cheated on her before, insulted me since we got together, not to mention the constant 'Im better then him' talks hes had with her about me. He's even threatened suicide if she doesnt go back to him. I've been there for her anytime she needed it, I've wrote poems for her, she knows I will never go after another girl, we have fun together, and she has told me many times before that she does love me (and believe me it is mutual and she knows). Her friends have even been trying to figure this out as she was hardly ever happy with him when they were together, and shes told them how happy she's been with me. The only thing I can get about him is that half of the time hes fun to be around. She also has a thing where she wants everyone happy and if they arent, she sometimes thinks that they are mad at her, this doesnt help right now because she doesnt know what to do. Shes trying to make up her mind at the moment, but he sees her more often since they play in a band together. I dont see her as much becaue the band takes friday saturday and sunday. And this band is also all of july and part of august and june, so I will only see her for maybe a day during that period of time. The week is hard as we are both in school. The problem is, it isnt the same school, Im at a University while she goes to another school 35 minutes away. She may be coming here in the fall, but I think she'll have her mind made up by then. I have never felt this much love for anyone before, please, give me some advice asap since I dont know whats going to happen or when.
Hund1976 Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 You could go whup that guys ass or something like that, but its basically her decision so there's not much you can do. If she knows how you feel about her then all you can do is wait and see what she decides. If she decides to get back together with him don't try to make any sense out of it. I've seen a lot of times when a guy or girl turns down a great person who loves them and treats them great to go out with a jerk instead.
Spider-Man Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 all you can do is trust her. If she goes backl to her ex as hurtful as it may be, at least it'd be less hurtful if she'd left you for him when you were more involved or even married. Its horrible when this sorta thing happens but all you can do is sit by and watch, y letting her know how much you care about her thoguh will prevent her from gonig ack to her ex.
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